Friday, August 19, 2011

Know Your LGBT History - The Wedding Banquet

Long before he won a Best Director Oscar for Brokeback Mountain, Ang Lee had already made a movie about the gay community.

The Wedding Banquet is a 1993 Chinese comedy about a happily coupled gay Taiwanese immigrant man (Winston Chao) in New York who marries a mainland Chinese woman to placate his parents and get her a green card. His plan backfires when his parents arrive in the United States to plan his wedding banquet. It's a wild story with many twists and turns (including Chao getting drunk and impregnating his female bride) but it has a happy ending through family love and devotion.

It was also a very popular movie, even garnering an Oscar nomination for Best Foreign Language Film.

These two scenes - which probably give away some of the plot - are very interesting. Check out the traumatic scene of Chao coming out to his mother and how she insists that his father not know:




But based on this scene with Chao's partner, his father not only knows but respects the relationship:




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4 comments:

Anonymous said...

It's available on Netflix Watch Instantly:

http://movies.netflix.com/WiPlayer?movieid=60011421&trkid=2361637

Prospero said...

I remember seeing this film in a theater and bawling my eyes out at that last scene where the father talks about gaining a son. Lee is an amazing filmmaker.

Unknown said...

D'awwwww!

Anonymous said...

This is a great film that I've shown in classes in very conservative areas (eg., Mississippi and Poland) and, while there's been a measure of discomfort, most of my students respond positively. The genius of Lee is that he wraps this very positive gay story in a universal theme of children trying to live up to the expectations of their parents and parents coming to accept their children for who they are.