Long before he won a Best Director Oscar for Brokeback Mountain, Ang Lee had already made a movie about the gay community.
The Wedding Banquet is a 1993 Chinese comedy about a happily coupled gay Taiwanese immigrant man (Winston Chao) in New York who marries a mainland Chinese woman to placate his parents and get her a green card. His plan backfires when his parents arrive in the United States to plan his wedding banquet. It's a wild story with many twists and turns (including Chao getting drunk and impregnating his female bride) but it has a happy ending through family love and devotion.
It was also a very popular movie, even garnering an Oscar nomination for Best Foreign Language Film.
These two scenes - which probably give away some of the plot - are very interesting. Check out the traumatic scene of Chao coming out to his mother and how she insists that his father not know:
But based on this scene with Chao's partner, his father not only knows but respects the relationship:
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The Wedding Banquet is a 1993 Chinese comedy about a happily coupled gay Taiwanese immigrant man (Winston Chao) in New York who marries a mainland Chinese woman to placate his parents and get her a green card. His plan backfires when his parents arrive in the United States to plan his wedding banquet. It's a wild story with many twists and turns (including Chao getting drunk and impregnating his female bride) but it has a happy ending through family love and devotion.
It was also a very popular movie, even garnering an Oscar nomination for Best Foreign Language Film.
These two scenes - which probably give away some of the plot - are very interesting. Check out the traumatic scene of Chao coming out to his mother and how she insists that his father not know:
But based on this scene with Chao's partner, his father not only knows but respects the relationship:
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Know Your LGBT History - All in the Family: Cousin Liz
Know Your LGBT History - Rebecca
Know Your LGBT History - urban African-American movies
Know Your LGBT History - Charles Pierce
Know Your LGBT History - Torch Song Trilogy
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Know Your LGBT History - MadTV
Know Your LGBT History - Gimme A Break
Know Your LGBT History - Not Another Gay Movie
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Know Your LGBT History - Mahogany
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It's available on Netflix Watch Instantly:
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I remember seeing this film in a theater and bawling my eyes out at that last scene where the father talks about gaining a son. Lee is an amazing filmmaker.
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ReplyDeleteThis is a great film that I've shown in classes in very conservative areas (eg., Mississippi and Poland) and, while there's been a measure of discomfort, most of my students respond positively. The genius of Lee is that he wraps this very positive gay story in a universal theme of children trying to live up to the expectations of their parents and parents coming to accept their children for who they are.
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