A good friend of mine sent me this video. It was created in 2009 by the news satire organization, The Onion but it still holds up today. I should tell you though that I had to watch it twice before realizing it was a parody. It walks a very thin line and could bring back awful memories to some readers. But I think that it does make a good point in its own way with regards to the masculine and feminine roles we attempt to drill into our children.
Don't be so insistent to force your child to take a role to ease your frame of mind.