Monday, December 29, 2025

Sold out Christmas drag show gets the last laugh on Florida, final thoughts about Charlie Kirk & other Mon/Tue news briefs

Editor's note - this may or may not be my final post for 2025. Either way, I am grateful for all of your support and hope that I continue to retain that support as I move into 2026, which will be my 20th blogging anniversary I think that the attack on the trans community will unfortunately continue in 2026, but I also think that our opponents just carried it step too far. And I am going to make a supreme effort in helping to capitalize on the error. What is the error? I won't mention it now, but I have my fingers crossed.

 
Florida tried to shut down this Christmas drag show. It sold out the entire venue. - A reminder from last week of what can be accomplished when you stand up to bullying.

Zohran Mamdani claps back after Elon Musk attacks out lesbian FDNY chief appointee - One thing I would like to see is more people calling out Elon Musk. That doddering, shy, maybe, possibly, slightly autistic routine he puts on is an act. In my opinion, he is a bigoted fool whose very presence is dragging America down. This article proves my point. The FDNY chief appointee he is attacking, Lillian Bonsignore, has over 30 years of experience: 

 Bonsignore joined the FDNY in 1991 as an emergency medical technician, serving 31 years before her retirement in 2022. She was named chief of the FDNY’s Emergency Medical Services division in 2019, becoming the first woman to head the division and first uniformed woman to be a four-star chief in the department. Her tenure included working as a first responder in the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001, and leading the EMS division during the COVID-19 pandemic. 

Trump's gay Kennedy Center president demands $1M from performer who canceled Christmas Eve show - And I want to create three Rob Kardashian clones who will be my love slaves. You can't always get what you want. 


When grandparents come out of the closet - Good article! We tend to forget our elder LGBTQ people and that shouldn't ever happen.


Finally, a word about Charlie Kirk to close out this post:

This might be slightly premature to say, but I think the death of Charlie Kirk — and Trump World’s subsequent forced national observance of grief — is having the opposite effect of what I initially thought. If you had asked me in September what would happen, I would have said that Kirk’s murder was the American Reichstag fire, the moment the Trump administration and its great and powerful cyber army would finally conquer the information landscape and complete their authoritarian crackdown on free speech. 

 And a bit of that happened, sure, there was harassment, and doxxing, and people lost their jobs for insensitive posts about Kirk. But it didn’t last. Only a few months later, there is no bigger joke on the internet than Charlie Kirk. Every feed is full of Kirkified slop and AI brainrot mercilessly making fun of MAGA’s martyred influencer. The tail of history is long and these things always evolve, but, as it stands currently, Kirk is the Harambe of the 2020s and MAGA has never felt more cringe, old, and worst of all, boring. - Ryan Broderick, author, Garbage Day

Monday, December 22, 2025

Would you be gay for an hour for one billion dollars, Nancy Mace is so unpopular & other holiday news briefs

 

 Editor's note - Some folks may see the above video as offensive, but I disagree. It's from the Facebook group All African LGBTQ We Have Rights Too and I see it as a way to harmlessly laugh at ourselves as poke fun at LGBTQ stereotypes. It's also my way of saying Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all of you because (barring something really good and juicy happening), this my last post this week.  Enjoy your holidays and when you're done laughing or are not too angry at the video, check out the news brief below:



Nancy Mace

The South Carolina GOP is not enthused about Nancy Mace’s run for governor - Imagine Nancy Mace being that alienating. Heck, I can. We all can.

Hate group scores victory & forces foster agency to stop requiring parents to affirm LGBTQ+ kids - Definitely not a case of putting kids first. However, while the phraseology talking specifically about LGBTQ kids needing to be supported is eliminated, the generic language replacing it still leaves wiggle room for our kids.

Chest binder vendors respond to 'absurd' FDA warning letter: 'Clearly discrimination' - The Trump Administration's war on the trans community can backfire, particularly if the ACLU take them to court. That would mean the Trump Administration would have to defend, under oath, the false things they've said about trans healthcare. Heck, let's take it further and make anti-trans activists such as Chloe Cole testify under oath. 

The 25 most-read LGBTQ sports stories of 2025 on Outsports — countdown - LGBTQ people have been doing really well in the sports community in spite of all things considered. 

2025 Was Brutal — and LGBTQ Protest Became a Way to Survive - Yes it was brutal, but our community have faced ugly shit before and we've won. It's because we know how to fight and win. We still do. 

Aetna to cover IVF treatments for same-sex couples in national settlement - Let's close out these news briefs with good news.

Thursday, December 18, 2025

Insane claim about children's penises highlights Trump Administration effort to ban healthcare for trans kids

Trump official Mehmet Oz voices a wild and absolutely ridiculous claim about creating children's penises as a part of the administration's effort to ban gender-affirming healthcare for trans kids.


From National Public Radio

Health officials from the Trump administration announced several moves Thursday that will have the effect of essentially banning gender-affirming care for transgender young people, even in states where it is still legal. Health Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. and Dr. Mehmet Oz, who leads Medicaid and Medicare, announced the measures in a press conference at the headquarters of the Department of Health and Human Services in Washington, D.C. 

 "So-called gender affirming care has inflicted lasting physical and psychological damage on vulnerable young people," Kennedy said. "This is not medicine. It is malpractice." The American Academy of Pediatrics pushed back strongly against HHS's actions. "These policies and proposals misconstrue the current medical consensus and fail to reflect the realities of pediatric care and the needs of children and families," said AAP President Dr. Susan J. Kressly. 

 The ban takes the form of two new proposed rules from Medicaid and Medicare. The first prohibits doctors and hospitals from receiving federal Medicaid reimbursement for gender-affirming care provided to transgender patients younger than age 18. Medicaid is the health care program that covers low-income Americans. The second rule blocks all Medicaid and Medicare funding for any services at hospitals that provide pediatric gender-affirming care. 

Virtually every hospital in the country takes Medicare, which covers older Americans and the disabled. Because hospitals rely on Medicare, the rule would have a wide-ranging effect. Supporters and opponents of transgender rights agree that, taken together, the forthcoming hospital rules could make access to pediatric gender-affirming care across the country extremely difficult, if not impossible.  


From NBC News

 HHS also announced that the Food and Drug Administration will issue warning letters to 12 manufacturers and retailers of breast binders for minors for the purposes of treating gender dysphoria, which is the distress that results from a misalignment between a person’s gender identity and birth sex, alleging that the manufacturers are participating in illegal marketing. HHS’ Office for Civil Rights proposed a revision to Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973, which prohibits discrimination in federally funded programs, to clarify that the definitions of “disability” exclude gender dysphoria that does not result from physical impairments.

 The proposed revision "clarifies" for HHS funding recipients that "policies preventing or limiting sex-rejecting procedures do not violate Section 504’s disability nondiscrimination requirements," the agency said in a statement. The proposed CMS rules and revision to Section 504 will be finalized after a 60-day and 30-day comment period, respectively, according to an HHS spokesman.


Those who oppose gender-affirming care for trans youth often copy the narrative used against LGBTQ rights in general - that it is an attempt to indoctrinate kids and will, in the long run, harm them physically and mentally. 

In this particular case, they claim that gender-affirming care will make trans kids sterile and generally unhealthy via the use of hormones and specifically by costly and unnecessary surgeries. This narrative was on display during the press conference via a wild claim via Dr. Oz as to how much is being charged to create penises and vaginas for trans kids:


The claims is an extreme exaggeration. The procedure involving penises (phalloplasty) is not performed on minors. You have to be 18 or older. Vaginoplasties for minors are done in rare cases and in many of those conditions have nothing to do with the child being trans. 

 Grok, the fact-checking mechanism found on Twitter, also called out Dr. Oz's statements:


As Grok pointed out in the above statement, when it comes to surgeries involving trans kids, the majority deal with chest procedures or as they are called, "top surgeries." But before anyone against gender-affirming care get all up in arms about this, check out what Grok said about top surgery procedures done for trans kids vs. non-trans kids



The issue is far from over. The American Civil Liberties Union has announced that they are taking the Trump Administration to court. And as the issue makes its way through the legal courts and the court of public opinion, Trump Administration officials and those who thrive on demonizing trans people will continue to push wild and false claims about sterility, castrations, and surgeries all designed to shock and scare rather than to educate.  

These claims are also ugly attempts to drown out the voices of trans kids whose ability to live and thrive in peace will be put in grave danger if their healthcare is taken away.


For one mom of a transgender teen in California, the rules and bills released this week are concerning. She asked that NPR not name her or her child because she fears she could lose her job or risk her family's safety by speaking about their experiences.

 "It feels like we're being hunted," she says. 

 She describes her own process of learning about the options for gender-affirming care for her teenager and concluding that the benefits outweighed the risks. "If we can't stop the government from legislating what health care families can receive in consultation with their doctors, then I don't recognize this America," she says. 

 Her son is 15-years-old and has been taking testosterone for about 6 months. He is a scout, he runs cross-country, and wants to work in a math or science field. His friends know he is transgender but not everyone at his high school does. "I kind want to make it clear — I came out to my parents and said that I wanted to start [hormone therapy] and it took them a long time to be OK with that," he says. "We went to a lot of therapy. We had a lot of discussions. My parents — they were scared for me to start it." He says both he and his parents researched it: "It wasn't just like a whim." 

 He says starting hormone therapy brings to mind a hiking metaphor: "I was like, 'Oh, this is the path that's going to take me to where I want.' I feel like my body is going in the right direction." The changes the Trump administration and Congress are doing worry him. "It feels like someone's throwing me into the bush just off the path I'm on," he says.

 "And that's kind of terrifying. I don't want to be lost. I want to keep going where I'm going."

Monday, December 15, 2025

In memory of Rob and Anthony - the gay episode of 'All in the Family' which infuriated President Nixon

Anthony Geary (right), Rob Reiner (center), and Carroll O'Connor (left)

We lost two good ones last weekend. 

Director and actor Rob Reiner and longtime soap opera actor Anthony Geary passed away. Geary died from complications of a recent surgery.  And Reiner, in an ugly and tragic turn of events, was murdered along with his wife, Michele. Their son, who has had a long-time problem with drug abuse, was arrested.

Geary himself was gay and Reiner's liberal activism played a huge role in our marriage equality victory at SCOTUS.  Reiner's death, because of its awful nature, has gotten more attention. Also, Donald Trump decided to exploit his murder to settle political scores because Reiner was very public (and accurate) in criticizing his administration. 

But never mind about that trashy son of a bitch who some Americans were off their rocker to twice put in the White House. Karma will be a harsh mistress to him.

Let's focus on Geary and Reiner and how they contributed to LGBTQ history via an episode of the groundbreaking All in the Family.  It featured one of the earliest televised portrayals of a gay man and was so controversial that it infuriated then President Richard Nixon.

In the episode, "Judging Books by Cover," Geary portrays Roger, a friend of Reiner's character Mike. Because of the seemingly effeminate way he carries himself, Roger is considered to be gay by Mike's father-in-law Archie.  Archie makes fun of Roger behind back in various ways.

At the end of the episode, it turns out that Roger may not be gay, but Archie's friend, uber macho Steve (played by Phil Carey) is.  President Richard Nixon was said to be furious at the episode because he felt it "glorified homosexuality."

Nixon didn't exactly care for our sort, so to speak.

Below are snippets.

      

Friday, December 12, 2025

Libs of TikTok and founder Chaya Raichik blasted on social media for alleged Epstein Files hypocrisy


The bigoted site Libs of TikTok and its founder Chaya Raichik got the proverbial taste of their own medicine this week for the harm they have caused the LGBTQ community.

For those who do not know, Libs of TikTok and its founder, Raichik, specialize in demonizing LGBTQ people as pedophiles and groomers. The site uses information provided by LGBTQ people and our allies via social media, but inaccurately frames said information to make us appear to be dangerous anti-social perverts.  This has led to harassments, firings and bomb threats.

I'm not going to waste time explaining the particulars behind Raichik's latest attack. I have no idea what was going on with situation involving the Pride flag she was griping about. 

There are two things you should keep in mind:

1. Libs of TikTok blocked me years ago, so I am posting a quoted retweet of its initial tweet.

2. Earlier this year, Raichik was among 15 right-wing influencers given binders by the Trump Administration labeled 'The Epstein Files' as proof that it was releasing information related to the late sex offender Jeffrey Epstein.  Some claimed that this was a stunt whose goal was to downplay information about Epstein and obscure release of any information in general. 

In the thread below her condemnation of the Pride flag. Raichik was verbally skewered on the hypocrisy of how she slurs LGBTQ people as pedophiles and "groomers" while seemingly helping to obscure the crimes of an actual pedophile.

Chaya had her defenders in the thread, but the pushback against her was loud, meanspirited, vicious, and downright ugly at times.

But quite enjoyable. 

Below is the tweet and the pushback.


Wednesday, December 10, 2025

Bigoted pastor thinks using the F-word slur will stop gays from 'converting' kids

 

Personally, I think Webbon should think of words to keep children from being molested in churches. That's where much of the abuse is coming from.


Christian nationalist Joel Webbon, the racist, antisemitic, and deeply misogynistic theocratic fascist pastor who runs Right Response Ministries, used a recent episode of his podcast to urge his fellow right-wing Christians to use the word "faggot" in their battle against LGBTQ rights. 

 "Homosexuality is degenerate," Webbon said. "It is bad for the populace. It's bad for society. It's been incredibly harmful. We've seen a full court press against our own children as the sacrificial lamb in order to appease older gay men and make them feel better about themselves. It's wicked. It's predatory. And I think it is appropriate for us to be able to call it what it is and say, 'Wait a second, this is perverse, it's wicked, it's faggotry, and it needs to stop.'" 

 "Yes, you can use that word on occasion, as I just did, to say, 'No, we're not going to tolerate faggotry with our children. Cut it out. Stop it. Say Christ is Lord,'" he continued. "I don't think that it's a sin to say faggot in its proper context. I think you can be a Christian who fears the Lord and say, 'Enough is enough.'" 

 "You've got the San Francisco Gay Choir a couple years ago writing songs—and it was not a joke—[singing,] 'We'll convert your children,'" Webbon added. "No, stop it, faggots. No, you will not convert my children. You're degenerates, you're predators, and you're evil. In the name of Jesus Christ, stop it. 

Back into the shadows." "Every society will have a closet and there will either be Christian children hiding in that closet with their parents, ostracized from society, or you will have sexual degenerates in that closet," he said. "Call me a radical [but] I think the sexual degenerates are the ones, the members of society, that should be in the closet, not Christian families and their children."


Monday, December 08, 2025

'Progressive podcaster calls out Charlie Kirk's widow as a 'grifter'' & other Mon/Tue news briefs

Erika Kirk

‘Should Be Kicked To The Curb’: Progressive Podcaster Attacks Widow Erika Kirk as a ‘Grifter’​ - I fail to see any lie here. Charlie Kirk was a sleazy racist conman whose rhetoric paved a road which ultimately led to his assassination. Since that time, his widow, Erika, has been playing the part of a wannabe "Mrs. Norman Maine" at the end of the motion picture A Star Is Born, casting herself as his sad but determined widow who will go on fight battles in his name. And of course, the right-wing media ecosystem (which includes that vile Bari Weiss of CBS News) is helping her to play that part. It's all a game until she is no use to them. The fun part will be watching how fast they drop her when she is no longer any use to them. 



Ex-gay Milo Yiannopoulos regrets “mainstreaming” homosexuality in the GOP: “Nobody’s gay” - A sad queen who is of use to no one on any side of the political spectrum. 

HHS replaces name on transgender admiral’s official portrait with deadname in act of ‘pettiness and bigotry’ - So damn inappropriately petty. It underscores how the Trump Administration treats trans people as convenient victims to bully.