Wednesday, August 24, 2022

Being jaded is not a good look for the LGBTQ community

 

 This video by my online friend Matt Baume is a few years old but I find it still relevant.  And amplifying it is a perfect way for me to bring up something which has bothered me for a while. 

I think we're a bit jaded as a community. 

These days we are inundated with positive LGBTQ images in all forms of media. So much so that it's blinding us to actual threats which can cripple our community. We tend to forget that we are still in a fight against folks who are determined to either undermine our rights or do what they can to eradicate our presence from society. From the 'Don't Say Gay' bills and laws to groups selling swag by smearing us as groomers of children to the constant attack on the trans community, there is too much garbage out there for us to become complacent.

That's why videos like the above are important. It's  a reminder of  where we were and how we got where we are. Some of us seem to have the belief that people raged at Stonewall, busted a couple of windows and suddenly we got rights the next day. Stonewall was just a touchstone. It was one of many. We fought like hell before that night in New York and we fought like hell after it to get where we are. And all of it did not include raising hell and shutting things down.  People always forget the planning, the organizing, the intricate details of discipline which got us the organizations and the laws. People always forget that progress doesn't happen in one hot day or night and that long-term plans and goals are always needed if  one is truly serious about attaining success. They forget because things like that aren't seen as glamorous as shouting in the streets and carrying signs.

 I was born in a time when there was no "Will and Grace" or "RuPaul's Drag Race." I remember when AIDS was ravaging the community and people joked about how it was killing our community as if it was the latest gag. Some of us have forgotten and still others weren't born yet. We need a remembrance, a wake-up call. 

In the black community, we are constantly reminded of how we progressed in this country and the sacrifices made to get us there. We are also constantly reminded that there are folks out there who want to take it away from us if we  blinked just once.  And we are constantly reminded of our history, of the time when we couldn't run for public office, when we were beaten and lynched in broad daylight and when we suffered other indecencies.  Because of that, our eyes are always at the figurative gate just in case someone tries to break in.

The LGBTQ community would do well to take to heart what the black community does.We love to immerse ourselves in the trivial aspect of LGBTQ culture, but let's not forget that the fight isn't over. Don't let your eagerness to celebrate Pride blind you to the termites trying to eat away at our foundation.

'Church will apologize, pay damages which will go to LGBTQ causes because of 'Hamilton' controversy' & other Wed midday news briefs



Texas church forced to donate to LGBTQ causes: report - That's what you get when you mess with 'Hamilton.' Pay the price.




Tuesday, August 23, 2022

Hilarious anti-LGBTQ school board rant goes viral. But with the mockery comes a huge addendum

This man's highly bigoted rant at a TX school board meeting would be amusing except for the fact that the policy he supported passed.

This guy's insane speech has gone viral. He was speaking during board meeting at the Grapevine-Colleyville school district in Texas in support of a policy similar to Florida's Don't Say Gay law.



Yep, he is one to mock. But you also know that the board passed the policy. 

The policy gaining approval and  folks like him spewing stuff at school board meetings in general are the result of a cellphone company and far right Christian activist group, Patriot Mobile, investing $500,000 in flooding Northeast Texas school board elections with conservative candidates. And winning.

If it sounds scary, then good. It should. Basic bigotry is always fun to laugh at until you see its consequences.

Hat tip to independent journalist Steven Monacelli. He does really good work and you should support him. Click on his name to go to his linktree.

'American Idol alum Sanjaya comes out as bisexual' & other Tue midday news briefs

Sanjaya Malakar

American Idol phenomenon Sanjaya comes out as bisexual​ - An important story about being an LGBTQ in the entertainment industry while trying to find yourself. Stories like this are always relevant.

Republican CNN contributors promote anti-LGBTQ Libs of TikTok account - And got promptly checked. Something which does not happen on Fox News. 


Dwyane Wade Helps Trans Daughter Legally Change Her Name, Gender - Trans kids need more supportive parents like Dwayne Wade. 

The DeSantis administration’s latest transphobic ruling has them headed straight for a lawsuit - It's gonna happen and I have a hopeful idea of  how this is going to end.

Monday, August 22, 2022

'LGBTQ people banned. Democrats arrested. All schools are Christian' - Far-right Christian nationalist reveals dream for future America

This rant by white nationalist and far right Christian Dalton Clodfelter is both funny and scary. On one hand, can you really get angry at the child. I suppose going through life with a name like Dalton Clodfelter is bound to get you angry. But a genuine question is how many conservative and Republican candidates for public office out there silently agree with what he's loudly spewing?


“Once we take our country back, we will have federal agents kicking down the doors of every treasonous Democrat, every treasonous globalist, every homosexual couple that has molested a child, and they will be arrested, and they will be sentenced to prison,” Clodfelter declared.

 “I believe in a far right-authoritarian government. No, I am not a fascist. No, I am not a white supremacist. No, I am not a Nazi. But I do believe that hierarchy, structure, and authority are very important. I do believe that our society needs these things in order to progress and maintain its cultural framework.” “I believe that our society needs this in order to rid itself of the sexual immorality and blatant degeneracy running rampant all throughout the country,” he continued.

 “Once we take control, we will identify our enemies, and we will stomp them into the dirt. They will not be able to return to power. We will rip them from their offices. We will rip them from their homes for being degenerate liars, degenerate treasonous domestic terrorists because that is what they are.” “We want to take back the country and reestablish a Christ-like nation,” Clodfelter asserted.

 “A nation where the national religion is Christian. A nation where the national language is English. A nation where pornography is banned, homosexuality is banned, and transgenderism is banned. Where you will never see a college that isn’t a Christian college. The only college acceptable that you are able to go to is a Christian school because every school in these United States should teach Christian values. Every school should teach the 10 Commandments in elementary school. Every school should promote what it means to be a Christian to the youth of America. It cannot be any other way. There should be no secular teaching in the schools.”


tip to Right Wing Watch.

'LGBTQ advocates say the government's monkeypox response is missing communities of color' & other Mon midday news briefs



LGBTQ advocates say the government is missing communities of color in its monkeypox response​ - Like always, we have to shout the loudest to be heard. Then folks get mad at us for shouting. 


R&B Star Tevin Campbell Comes Out as Gay - How SOME folks in the gay community have acted over this says a lot about racism and self-hatred in our community. Just saying. I say he did good by being open and showing BLACK LGBTQ folks that we have more visibility than people think. 

Sunday, August 21, 2022

Florida removes all LGBTQ support documents from schools after 'convenient' complaint about one sentence from out-of-date guide

The DeSantis Administration is trying to make this a reality for LGBTQ Floridians.

 In defending Florida's  'Don't Say Gay' law (passed in March of this year), Gov. DeSantis and the rest of its supporters claimed that it was simply for keeping children away from sexually-graphic material.  A lot of us knew however that the law would be used to erase and silence LGBTQ people and undermining resources beneficial to our health and well-being. 

It looks like we are being proven right with this latest move by Florida Education Commissioner Manny Diaz, Jr.  According to WFSU News:


Florida Education Commissioner Manny Diaz Jr. on Wednesday gave his staff the go-ahead to "pull" LGBTQ support documents at all school districts, after a State Board of Education member asserted that some could violate a controversial new law. Board member Ryan Petty said he has “grave concerns” about some LGBTQ support guides provided to students, teachers and school staff members. Petty specifically took issue with one sentence from a Hillsborough County district guide, reading it aloud during a State Board of Education meeting in Pensacola. 


 Here is the sentence; 

“With the limited exception involving the imminent fear of physical harm, it is never appropriate to divulge the sexual orientation of a student to a parent,” the Hillsborough County guide said.

But according to Naples Daily News, the excerpt Petty was reading had already been removed:

But Petty was reading an excerpt that already has been removed following a review of the guide by the Palm Beach County school district. A section on talking to parents and guardians was overhauled substantially after the district’s review. “Parents are entitled to access their students’ educational records. If the information about a student’s sexual orientation or gender identity is contained in a student record, parents are entitled to this information,” the section now says. “Students also have a constitutional right to privacy which includes the right to determine whether or not sensitive information about themselves will be disclosed to others.” 

Petty did not name the law that he suspects is being violated, but the Legislature this year passed a controversial measure (HB 1557) that bars classroom instruction about sexual orientation and gender identity in early grades. In older grades, the law prohibits such instruction that is not “age-appropriate or developmentally appropriate” for students in accordance with state standards. 

The article went on to say that Diaz immediately signed off on Petty's request. 

This move by Florida to remove LGBTQ support guides from school comes on the heels of the state's  recent attempt  to ban gender-affirming care from kids and Medicaid patients.

According to VICE News:

Less than a month after “Don’t Say Gay” became law, the Florida Department of Health released its memo attempting to provide a scientific explanation for denying gender-affirming care. Then in June, Florida’s Agency for Health Care Administration also issued a new policy that no one, not even adults, would be able to access gender-affirming care through Medicaid. 
Rather than referring to the overwhelming body of research that shows positive outcomes of gender-affirming care, Florida instead commissioned hundreds of pages of new material—which did not go through a standard peer-review process—to justify the change. Florida Surgeon General Joseph Ladapo then wrote the state medical board and used these documents as the basis to “[recommend] against certain pharmaceutical, non-pharmaceutical, and surgical treatments for gender dysphoria.”

Florida's report was condemned for deliberate misinformation not only by a group of Yale researchers but also 10 researchers whose work was used in the report. 


Researchers cited in the Florida health department’s April memo said their work was misrepresented in an attempt to justify denying gender-affirming care to Florida’s trans youth. A report from Vice found that all 12 citations in the memo either distort the work that was cited or come from explicitly anti-trans sources, with Florida’s Department of Health claiming that it could not find any evidence indicating that such treatments are safe, labelling them “experimental” – despite the work they cited saying the opposite.

Not only that, but meetings in which Florida sought to seek public input on this rule were conveniently dominated by those supporting it. According to the South Florida Sun Sentinel:

In what at times appeared more like a tent revival than an agency rule hearing, state health officials on Friday received public input on a proposal that would deny Medicaid coverage for treatments such as puberty-blocking medication and hormone therapy for transgender people. 

 The state Agency for Health Care Administration rolled out the proposed rule in June, drawing harsh criticism from national and state legal and LGBTQ-advocacy groups. Friday’s meeting drew more than 150 people, with supporters of the proposed rule — many of them sporting “Let Kids Be Kids” decals and making biblical references — vastly outnumbering opponents. Speakers supporting the proposal included a Baptist minister, members of the Florida Citizens Alliance, the head of the Christian Family Coalition, the founder of the Florida Prayer Network, a representative of the Florida Federation of Republican Women and a man carrying a giant American flag on a pole. 

 In contrast to typically staid rule hearings, the crowd at Friday’s session frequently broke out in applause and more than once attempted to shout down opponents of the proposal.

Taking into account Florida's rigged effort to stamp out gender-affirming healthcare and now what seems to be a rigged attempt to remove LGBTQ support guides in its schools,  it is not hysterical to guess what's happening in the state. The DeSantis administration is undertaking a steady, deliberate, and cynically thought-out strategy to wreck the lives of LGBTQ Floridians. And if  we all (LGBTQ people, our allies, the media, etc)  don't loudly and strenuously call it out, it will probably be used as a framework to create havoc against LGBTQ people on a nationwide scale. 

Especially if the GOP takes over Congress in the upcoming midterms.

None of this is by accident. And certainly none of it is about protecting anyone, especially children. It's about bigotry, obscene thirsts for power, and scapegoating.