Thursday, November 10, 2011

Scapegoating gay men for the Penn State tragedy

It was bound to happen. I was hoping that it wouldn't but in hindsight, I shouldn't have been surprised.

Someone from the religious right is now blaming gay men for the Penn State tragedy.

Peter LaBarbera of the hate group Americans for Truth had this to say:

. . . how many boy victims of homosexual predator Sandusky will end up believing that being homosexual ("gay") is "who they are"? How many will struggle with sexual identity issues? And how many will be told by LGBT advocates and liberal-minded people just to "accept being gay" as "who they are" because they were "born that way"?

. . . There IS a long history connecting homosexuality to pederasty, and a disproportionate link between homosexuality and pedophilia: why else would so many child molestation victims be boys when only 1-3 percent of the population is homosexual?

LaBarbera has a long history of demonizing gay men for even the most trivial of things, but today is probably the lowest he has ever stooped.

Now some may ask why am I publicizing LaBarbera's comments. He obviously wants some type of attention and now I am giving it to him.

This is true. But what LaBarbera said warrants attention. Some of us may scoff at his words but we would be wise to remember one thing. In a subtler form, the slanderous notion that gay men want to harm children has been used by organizations - i.e. the National Organization for Marriage - in efforts stop marriage equality.

In a less subtle form, this lie formed the building blocks of fear and hatred which led to that awful bill in Uganda and subsequently the brutal murder of activist David Kato. His murderer was recently sentenced to 30 years in prison.

So yes, LaBarbera's word warrant attention, but not in the way he desires. LaBarbera's words deserves attention as a shining example of hatred and ignorance encased in a mindset so blind that it refuses to acknowledge truth.  A mindset masked in religious demagoguery and extremism in its most nauseating form.

To whit, there is no link between homosexuality and pedophilia. None whatsoever.

And this is backed by the American Psychological Association, the National Association of Social Workers, the American Academy of Child Psychiatrists and the Child Welfare League of America.

LaBarbera, on the other hand, has no expertise in this area. He has no degrees and has done no research.

He doesn't even cite any studies.

In layman's terms, LaBarbera is talking out of his pudgy ass.

What LaBarbera seems to be doing is speaking from an internal pathological need to smear gay men.

The scandal at Penn State is volatile and out-of-control and that is highly understandable. Children have been harmed, quite possibly psychologically scarred for life.

What we all need to do here is pray for them as well as guard our own children against those who would prey on their innocence.

What we don't need to do allow ourselves to be exploited by someone who doesn't give a damn about anyone or anything but his own personal prejudices.



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'Republicans make bigoted fools of themselves' and other Thursday midday news briefs

Senate Judiciary Committee Advances Respect For Marriage Act - The repeal of DOMA got out of the Senatorial Committee but not before the Republican Senators made homophobic asses of themselves.

Speaking of which, here are the idiotic highlights:

Al Franken Fact Checks Chuck Grassley: Marriage Has Evolved Over Time

Republicans: Only Straight Couples Form ‘Stable Families’, Marriage Equality Is Too Expensive

in other news:

Crafting a ‘Marriage Anti-Defamation’ video: How, why, and who?
- More proof of  NOM's deceptions.

Man Sentenced To 30 Years For Murder Of Ugandan Gay Rights Activist David Kato - Those who helped to foster the attitude in Uganda which led to this murder walk away. But not completely.

Box Turtle Bulletin gives a more detailed look at the murder and the conviction.

As Maryland Prepares For Marriage Equality Push, Catholics Complain Of ‘Religious Liberties’ Infringement - It's sad seeing the lies coming from the Catholic Church in regards to marriage equality.


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Hate group whining that Obama is hostile to Christianity

Tony Perkins

 The Family Research Council's Tony Perkins is whining that President Obama is hostile to Christianity:

I have no doubt, as you look back over the last two and a half of years of this administration, that the President has used his bully pulpit, he has done public policy but beyond the public policy that he’s pushed for, its created an atmosphere that is hostile toward Christianity. And we’re seeing this played out all across this culture and the courts have been emboldened by this and now you see the military doing it as well. There’s no end to this as long as you have someone who is the Commander-in-Chief who is the president of this country that has a disdain for Christianity.

I would sincerely hope that President Obama is hostile to any type of Christianity  defined by Tony Perkins and FRC.

Remember Perkins is the same person who referred to gays as terrorists while FRC spokesman Peter Sprigg advocates deporting gays or criminalizing what he calls their sexual behavior.

The Family Research Council in general has devoted a huge amount of energy demonizing the gay community in the name of God and Christianity. The organization clearly deserves its hate group designation given by the Southern Poverty Law Center.

Seems to me that not only President Obama, but any red-blooded American should have a serious disdain for the type of Christianity which FRC and Perkins advocates.

Of course I'm not telling you anything that you don't already know. I know that I am preaching to the choir. But sometimes, the choir needs a pick-me-up from the preacher.



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Wednesday, November 09, 2011

NOM now attacking candidate it supported

The National Organization for Marriage is finally commenting on its embarrassing loss last night in the Iowa state senatorial election. From NOM Cultural Director Thomas Peters comes a tweet which should be remembered.



After spending over $30,000 on Cindy Golding's unsuccessful campaign, NOM is now dissing her as a weak candidate.

Just a reminder to folks running for public office. NOM doesn't give a damn about you or what you are trying to accomplish. If the organization can use you, count on getting the money.

And if it can't use you, count on being disposed of like used tissue.

There is one other thing about that tweet which may be, as C.S. Lewis once said, something worth knowing. A comment on NOM's blog uses the same type of verbiage. However, it doesn't list Peters as the author:

M. Jones
Posted November 9, 2011 at 3:58 pm | Permalink

Unfortunately the Iowa GOP proffered a very weak candidate. We should have known better. Next year will be a different kettle of fish with stronger GOP candidates and a GOP landslide dumping SS*m* to the dustbin of history.

This gives some credibility to the opinion of some that members of NOM's staff sometimes publishes comments on its blog to give an appearance of having a lot of reader support.

Certainly that's not what I am saying, but based on past experiences involving certain photos, the idea wouldn't be farfetched to consider.



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'High-schoolers stage sit-in to protest bullying' and other Wednesday midday news briefs

VICTORY! Gay and lesbian candidates sweep into public office

Annise Parker won re-election as Houston's mayor

In addition to the embarrassment suffered last night by the National Organization for Marriage, there is also more excellent news to report.

A large number of gay candidates were elected to public office last night. According to the Victory Fund:

Houston - Houston voters have returned Mayor Annise Parker to office without a runoff election, giving her nearly 51% of the vote in a general election tonight that featured five opponents. Parker, an out lesbian, was first elected in 2009 and will be able to run for one more 2-year term in 2013. Voters in the new city council District J chose Mike Laster to represent them. Laster becomes the first openly gay man elected to the Houston City Council.

Montana - Caitlin Copple, an out lesbian who was endorsed by the Victory Fund, has won her race for the Missoula, Montana, city council, defeating an incumbent who voted against an LGBT non-discrimination ordinance.

Cincinnati - Chris Seelbach has won his race for the Cincinnati, Ohio City Council. He becomes the first openly LGBT council member in the city’s history.

Mayfield
North Carolina - LaWana Mayfield won her race for Charlotte, N.C., City Council, becoming that city’s first openly LGBT elected official. She was heavily favored after ousting the incumbent Democrat in the primary earlier this year.

New Jersey - Bruce Harris was elected mayor of Chatham Borough, N.J. He’s likely the nation’s first openly gay, African American, Republican mayor. Mayor Tim Eustace of Maywood, N.J., has been elected to the New Jersey Assembly tonight, becoming the first openly gay non-incumbent to win a seat in the legislature. Eustace will join Assemblymember Reed Gusciora, who won his reelection bid, as New Jersey’s only openly gay state lawmakers.

Minnesota - Mary Doran has been elected to the School Board in St. Paul, Minn.

Connecticut - Pedro Segarra easily retains his post as mayor of Hartford, Conn. His main opponents dropped out of the race earlier this year.

Morse
Massachusetts - Alex Morse, a 22-year-old graduate of Brown University, has just been elected mayor of Holyoke, Mass., a city of nearly 40,000 residents near Springfield.

Indiana - Zach Adamson has won his race for city council in Indianapolis, giving the city its first openly LGBT city council member.

Florida - An incumbent on the Largo, Fla., City Commission who attacked her openly gay opponent over his sexual orientation has lost her reelection bid to him tonight. Michael Smith defeated Mary Gray Black, who has a history of anti-gay and anti-trans activism on the commission.

In addition, word has come that Daniel Hernandez, the intern whose actions saved Congresswoman Gabby Gifford after that awful shooting earlier this year, won a seat on Arizona's Sunnyside Unified School District governing board, with 61.8 percent of the vote.

Of course none of these candidates won because of their sexual orientation and it would be insulting to think of them as solely "the gay candidates."

But to ignore what their victories mean to the community and the nation at large would be even more insulting.

They prove that while the lgbtq community still has a hard road to trod, we are walking it rather nicely and all of the lies, slander, and hate done under the guise of religious beliefs can't stop us if we don't let it.

The world is changing, regardless of how some folks on the right feel about it. Lgbtqs are no longer hypothetical. We are no longer being seen as abstract pieces in religious arguments. We are real people who lead families, pay taxes, have normal lives, and - as seen by last night - are elected to public office.

Deal with it. And if you can't, that's YOUR problem.



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Tuesday, November 08, 2011

BREAKING - NOM wastes over $30,000 in embarrassing Iowa loss

The National Organization for Marriage just suffered an embarrassing loss in an Iowa special election which would have allowed the organization to challenge marriage equality in the state had its candidate won.

According to the Iowa Independent, NOM spent over $30,000 pushing Republican candidate Cindy Golding in a special election for a state senatorial seat.

But it wasn't enough because Golding came up short against Liz Mathis - 44% to 56% of the vote.

NOM sought to make the election a referendum about marriage equality, a strategy which may have backfired on the group.

It's too early to tell why Golding lost - even though Mathis was leading in the polls - but when it's all said and done, this election was probably decided by a mysterious robocall which all but sank Golding's chances:



No one knows who the group is behind the robocall but at press time, NOM is already whining about the call being a dirty trick which served to undermine Golding.

Had Golding won, state Republicans would have had enough votes to send a referendum on marriage equality to the voters.  In 2009, the Iowa Supreme Court made a ruling which legalized gay marriage in the state.

This is an ongoing story and there will be more details in later posts.


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