Monday, November 02, 2026

'MAGA reduced to pushing misleading clip of El-Sayed about trans athletes' & other Mon/Tues news briefs


Editor's note - Tuesday is election day and the LGBTQ community simply have to show up. A lot of us do weeping and hand wringing about the attacks on our community, but Tuesday is the time we take some action. Securing our rights and safety isn't going to happen instantaneously. It's a process which begins on Tuesday by voting for the candidates who support our community and - at the very least - we can establish a dialogue with even if they don't fully support our rights (i.e. some issues involving our trans brothers and sisters.) Victory doesn't happen in one day or even in one election. It's a long process. It's about building power while telling our stories. That's how we've won so many battles in the past. And that's how we win now That gameplan never changes.

 The point is it's easy to bellyache, but bellyachers have never won anything. Those who fight win. Let's make Tuesday a start in our fight. Don't take anything for granted, don't get complacent and don't predict anything. Just get your asses out and VOTE.

Okay, on to the news briefs:

MAGA Melts Down Over Misleading Clip of El-Sayed on 60 Minutes - In spite of all of the unnecessary controversy regarding El-Sayed (much of it has to do with him being a Muslim running for the Senate,) the fact that his opponent has to rely on a misleading clip about trans athletes says a lot about how the Republican party have nothing to run on except to scare folks about trans people. The fact that MAGA folks are working to increase engagement of this narrative speaks to the same point. 

Abdul El-Sayed stands up for trans people & their rights in “hostile” 60 Minutes interview - For those wondering about what El-Sayed actually said, here you go. 

For LGBTQ Voters, the 2026 Midterms Are Personal -You ain't just whistling Dixie, my friend.

Preschool case puts LGBTQ and religious rights at odds in Supreme Court - So here we go again with this Supreme Court. The case involves religious entities receiving tax dollars while discriminating against LGBTQ families. Knowing how this court has acted against us in the past, there is no telling what it will do with this case. 

Based on anti-trans spending, right-wingers could afford to pay every trans student athlete a six-figure salary - And of course there are the referendums on Tuesday in four states targeting trans athletes.

Wednesday, October 28, 2026

Video - LGBTQ children exist. Deal with it.

Today, I saw a video in which some guy calling in to a talk show complained that gays are "influencing" kids. It was the standard junk that we've heard all of our lives i.e. the lie that children knowing that LGBTQ people exist will somehow "take away" their innocence. He also said that 18+ was the appropriate age learn that we exist.

 Yet again, some fool reducing our lives to his fevered imagination of what he thinks we do sexually.

That's why I am reposting this video. It's a reminder of a simple fact that so many in this country want to ignore - the fact that LGBTQ children exist. They are not recruited, sexualized, groomed, nor any of the other adjectives used to create negative connotations of LGBTQ people. They simply are who they are.

Omitting their existence won't make them disappear. And as it has been proven countless times, all of the ex-gay therapy in the world won't change their gender expression or sexual orientation as if it's something which can be cured by antibiotics.

LGBTQ children exist, but how they exist is dependent on us. We can either embrace and guide them or act in deluded directions which won't change them one iota, but create self-hatred which will damage them spiritually, emotionally, and in some cases, physically. 

Monday, October 26, 2026

'Conservative parents upset that anti-trans ads are teaching kids that trans people exist' & other Mon/Tue news briefs

Conservative parents claim that anti-trans ads against Senate candidate James Talarico are teaching their children that trans people exist.

Editor's note - In the final week before the midterm election, I have just one thing to say - get off your asses and vote. You can do it now during the early vote period or wait until next Tuesday. Just as long as you do it. Voting is our power and we should never waste it. 

Conservative Parents Lament That Anti-Trans Ads Are Teaching Their Kids Trans People Exist - Whoops!

Hatred & division are all the GOP has left to peddle ahead of midterms - Trump and the Republicans wasted two years of total power, so now they want bigotry and fail to bail them out. 


DOJ Offers $1M Grant To Study “Violent” Trans People - An attempt to create junk science started by our government. Let me help these idiots out - there is no link between gender dysphoria and violent crime. Now where is my million dollars? 

Wednesday, October 21, 2026

#MAGAInYourBathroom ad blister Republicans for 'creepy' focus on trans people and public bathrooms

 


The 30-second ad from the Progress Action Fund (PAF) depicts a white-haired man in a suit sitting inside a bathroom stall. A young girl trying to use the bathroom then opens the stall door and screams upon seeing him.

“I’m your Republican Congressman,” he tells her in a raspy voice. “Now that we’re in charge, I’m checking to make sure there’s no trans people in the wrong bathroom.”
The girl responds, “Bathrooms are private. Don’t you have anything better to do?”
“I won the last election, and this is my priority,” the Congressman replies. And in perhaps the most powerful moment, the ad ends with a close-up of the generic Republican’s face as he creepily says, “Now let’s make sure you’re really a girl.”

The ad will air on television in both Texas and Ohio as part of a broader $1 million ad buy.


“Americans want their elected officials to lower gas prices and end the war in Iran, not follow them into the f–king restroom,” Progress Action Fund executive director Joe Jacobson said in a statement. “Republicans are creepy as hell. Democrats need to grow a spine and call Republicans out for their creepy fetish of monitoring children’s bathrooms.”

Personally, I think the ad - which is being praised for its directness - should air in more places around the country.

Tuesday, October 20, 2026

Trump accuses schools of secretly conducting transgender surgeries on children. He is lying, of course.

A school sign makes fun of Donald Trump's lie that schools are conducting transgender surgeries on children.

How desperate is Donald Trump to change the possible huge defeat of Republicans in the upcoming midterm elections? So desperate that he is falling back on his lies about the trans community which some say helped him win in 2024.

At a recent rally in Georgia, Trump claimed that schools in six states are secretly conducting trans surgeries on children.

From CNN:

At a rally in Georgia on Friday, he said, “We got critical race theory and transgender mutilization (sic) insanity out of our schools. I mean, we have five states where your child goes off to school as Tim and comes back as Tammy, three or four days later. It’s true. And teachers make – somebody makes a decision. Can you imagine? ‘Goodbye, Timmy. I love you so much. I’ll see you later.’ And you say, ‘Where’s my son? My son is in the hospital.’ Can you imagine? Can you imagine? They don’t even need approval. It’s sick. You’ll have five – I think Minnesota and some others – I think it’s five or six states. You know that, right?”

CNN factchecked this claim and found it to be . . . wait for it . . . a lie.

There is no state in which schools would not need parental approval to send a child to a hospital for elective surgery. And just like in 2024, experts in gender identity care told CNN that they do not know of a single case in which a US school had secretly sent a child away for gender surgery. The White House itself couldn’t provide one example proving Trump’s claim. Five conservative organizations we contacted in search of any examples did not respond.

The CNN article goes into more detail as to why this claim is a lie. I would suggest that folks read it.

This is not the first time this year that Trump has told wild stories about the trans community. In August, he claimed that hospitals were performing "reverse" trans surgeries at his orders. Of course, that comment was called out for the bullshit it is: 

Adrian Shanker, who served in the Biden administration as deputy assistant secretary for health policy and senior adviser on LGBTQI+ health equity at the Department of Health and Human Services, tells The Advocate that Trump’s confusion demonstrates why politicians should not make personal medical decisions

. “I don’t really know what President Trump means by reverse surgeries, but the reality is that he should leave medical decision-making up to the patient and their providers to discuss what medical care is right for a certain patient,” Shanker says. “These kinds of decisions really don’t have room for politicians in the middle of that conversation.” Trump’s “wild statement,” Shanker says, is evidence that politicians do not belong in the “patient-provider dyad.”

Trump and the Republican wasted the two years they had full power. They did nothing for the American people except making our lives more difficult by not doing anything about high prices, inflation, or the poor economy. And then there is that unnecessary war Trump got us into with Iran; the war presently going on with no end in sight.

Eager to change the subject and scare Americans into giving them another two years in power, they are pulling ugly rabbits out of dark hats by labeling Democrats as communists and - as seen here - conjuring up the image of transgender boogeyman eager to snatch up children and do surgeries on them.

We've seen them do stuff like this before and the fact that the president of the United States is telling an absolutely ludicrous lie to what seems to be a desensitized public and press could be seen as shocking. 

But is it?

 People are constantly asking why their fellow Americans put up with Trump. Why do they bend over backwards to support or make excuses for his lies?

The answer is easy, you dummies.

 It's because the power and prestige of the presidency. When members of his cabinet figuratively bend at the knee in meetings with him or when Franklin Graham debases his own alleged religious integrity by ignoring Trump's lies while overinflating his nonexistent virtues, it's not because they are devoted followers of Donald Trump. It's not because they love him. They are drooling, power-hungry sycophants eager to curry his favor for what he can dole out from his position as (ugh) leader of the free world.

Whether it be basic access for an article, a prestigious job in government, conservative judges, being photographed with him, publicity from being around him, or at the very least an inflated sense of self-esteem because you support him, the key to Trump's power isn't Trump. It's simply the old story about the lure of power. 

Still, it's a sad realization that Americans gave virtually unlimited power to a geriatric moron. It's an even sadder contemplation that many of these same Americans are willing to make every lie he tells, every error he makes, and every death he causes look like the miracles of Jesus as long as they can feed off of his undeserving presidential teat.

It all proves that voting is not only the power we have, but also the power we give. That's something we should remember.

Sunday, October 18, 2026

Pictures: Famously Hot South Carolina Pride hosts successful festival in downtown Columbia

On October 17, Famously Hot SC Pride hosted its annual festival in downtown Columbia SC where LGBTQ folks and our allies enjoyed a day of fun, fellowship, and family. As usual, I had a good time and brought back pictures. No one should ever accuse me of being a professional photographer, but I enjoy taking pictures of pride events. 

LGBTQ people are unfortunately inundated with stories about how our Pride events are exercises in lewd behavior where we run around naked and perform graphic sex acts in front of children. I don't know anything about that, and I have yet to see anything like that in the 20+ years I have attended and helped to organize Pride events in South Carolina. I'm not saying that it doesn't happen (in other places), just I don't where any of that happens and frankly, I don't care. These pictures below represent the LGBTQ community I am a part of, love, and will fight for with every breath of my body.

Because the LGBTQ community in general (and that includes ALL of us) is WORTH fighting for.





















Wednesday, October 14, 2026

Unhinged man says he loses sleep over the thought of trans men using the public restroom next to his three-year-old daughter


Usually, I am not one for trigger warnings, but a huge exception needs to be made for this one, particularly for my transgender brothers and sisters. The proper word to use for this caller to Isaiah Martin's show is psychotic. Martin can usually tear conservative Republican talking points to shreds, but I think he was left a little speechless over the caller's tirade. 

Maybe the word "psychotic" was too polite of a word to describe the caller.

How about rabidly unhinged and basically stupid. What else can one call this man as he raged about transgender men using the women's restrooms (he didn't know the difference between trans men and trans women) or how the thought of a trans person using the restroom (which he described in very graphic terms) next to his three-year-old daughter (his direct quote was "his three-year-old f%king daughter.") scares him. And let's not forget when he mentions the 36 occasions which he can pull up proving that trans men use the women's restrooms (he continues to get trans men and trans women mixed up.)

On one hand, the interaction is funny. This man is nothing more than a guinea pig. He's the proverbial drooling dog of the Pavlovian experiment conditioned to see trans predators in the corners of every public restroom as if they are mythical monsters waiting in ponds to snatch children who venture to close to water's edge.  On the other, it's both sad and scary when one realizes that this man is the type to attack trans women for simply using the restroom. 

And then there is the question that so many in the comments section of the tweet asked:

Why would he allow his three-year-old daughter to use a public restroom by herself?