. . while the group made national headlines by shouting about “pornography” and “Marxist indoctrination” at poorly attended school board meetings, winning seats in low-turnout school board elections, and sharing a stage with wannabe Republican presidential nominees, Joe Saunders, the executive director of Equality Florida Action PAC, noticed a few suspicious things about M4L early on, he told LGBTQ Nation.For one, fewer M4L-endorsed candidates won their school board races in 2023 than in 2022. Secondly, he noted that a majority of M4L candidates in Florida didn’t actually have kids currently enrolled in the state’s public schools. Third, while the group bills itself as a “grassroots organization of moms,” a significant portion of its 2022 funding came from two national anti-LGBTQ+ nonprofits: the Heritage Foundation (the authors of the very anti-LGBTQ+ Project 2025) and the George Jenkins Foundation (which is solely funded by Publix supermarket chain heiress Julie Fancelli).. . . “It was always our sense that [M4L’s founders] were politicians in search of attention, that they were looking for a stage to stand on… for momentum, clicks, and more power,” Saunders said, noting that the group emerged “overnight” with a “really sophisticated” and well-branded website, signage, and T-shirts. However, he called all of this a “short-term,” “PR focus[ed]” “manufactured momentum,” adding, “The only reason they haven’t been more successful is because their own incompetence or scandal or corruption has gotten in the way.”He may be right. By 2023, the group had gained a reputation for shouting at, intimidating, and threatening education officials, community advocates, and opposing groups – even baselessly leveling charges of child abuse and pedophilia against its opponents. In June 2023, the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) certified M4L as an “extremist group. That same month, an M4L chapter in Indiana made national headlines for quoting Nazi leader Adolf Hitler in its inaugural newsletter. Christian Ziegler told the organization that it never should have apologized for the quote because “apologizing makes you weak.”However, by December 2023 – the same month that M4L was identified as one of the three main groups behind 86% of the nation’s book bans – the Zieglers found themselves embroiled in an embarrassing sex scandal after the woman they regularly had threesomes with accused Christian Ziegler of sexual assault. He was later cleared of the charge, but within a month, the conservative Leadership Institute quietly removed Brideget Ziegler as the director of its School Board Leadership Program, and the Sarasota School Board voted unanimously for her to resign (though she refused to do so).That year, only 50 of the 139 M4L-endorsed school board candidates won their races. The following January, the state Republican Party voted out Christian Ziegler as its chair.
Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters
Analyzing and refuting the inaccuracies lodged against the lgbt community by religious conservative organizations. Lies in the name of God are still lies.
Wednesday, May 06, 2026
Anti-LGBTQ group Moms for Liberty facing growing unpopularity, election losses, & disillusioned members
Monday, May 04, 2026
Anti-LGBTQ coalition planning to target gay couples and their children via legislation
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| Katy Faust |
LGBTQ Americans and our loved ones should consider the following to be a warning:
We're ok with the Kim Davis case being passed over by the SCOTUS. The legislation coming will center the true victims of Obergefell, children, and ask the scotus to rule on reality.https://t.co/f7yEVbw1o7 pic.twitter.com/C7Scp3CZu3
— Greater Than Campaign (@MakeKidsGreater) May 1, 2026
We intend to challenge Obergefell not on the grounds of adult discomfort but on the grounds of child injustice. The story of Kim Davis highlights individual courage, but the story that will overturn Obergefell must highlight widespread harm. The measurable, irrefutable harm inflicted on children when the law denies their primal right to both parents. When the court finally reconsiders Obergefell, it must do so for the sake of those children. And when it does, the verdict will not just correct a legal error, it will restore moral sanity.
You don't respect women if you pretend they don't matter to their children. #GreaterThan https://t.co/lcI28Woltg
— Greater Than Campaign (@MakeKidsGreater) April 30, 2026
Note: there is no way to promote gay relationships without demolishing the rights of children to be known and loved by their own mother and father.
— Katy Faust (@Katy_Faust) April 30, 2026
Support gay marriage
OR
The needs of children.
You can't do both. https://t.co/1lHtlDWsD7
It's an ugly game Faust and her minions play, as evidence by the replies these tweets receive from their supporters. I won't post them, but I think you can guess what they say.Skin-to-skin matters because the child recognizes mom's smell, voice, and wants to nurse. Ever heard of the "Breast crawl" that is automatic to newborns?
— Greater Than Campaign (@MakeKidsGreater) April 29, 2026
The child isn't looking for random shirtless body-builders, one of whom is not possibly related. https://t.co/vpc8qZ3nB8
Thursday, April 30, 2026
'Pro family' advocate to the LGBTQ community - We are going to eliminate your marriages
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| Anti-LGBTQ activist Katy Faust wants to eliminate our legal right to marry. |
Just in case you need a reminder, long-time anti-LGBTQ activist Katy Faust and her band of bullshitters want to take away our right to marry.
While they've formed a new group for this goal, the Greater Than Campaign, they are still using the same tired talking points which initially caused them to lose the fight i.e. that gay couples are taking away the "rights of a child to have a mother and father." And they are pushing these talking points very aggressively, particularly on social media.
They deliberately ignore the fact that LGBTQ people have been raising children before Obergefell legalized gay marriage and that studies show that children raised by gay couples actually thrive as much as children raised by heterosexual couples. They are also trying to create a narrative that surrogacy is a way for gay male couples to "buy" children to be used as accessories or sexual partners (yes, they go there). In doing so, they seek to dehumanize gay fathers as well as erase our families brought together by foster care and adoption.
What can we do?
Stay visible and vocal. Don't be ashamed of our families and don't let anyone scare or disrespect us. Faust and her minions may have money, talking points, and some social media ecosystems on their side, but they don't have the most important qualities in this battle.
Truth and love.
Faust's attempt to disrupt our families have nothing to do with either of these qualities. It's simply naked and unapologetic homophobia. Disrupting our marriages and our families is a smokescreen generated by ignorance, prejudice and a very ugly strain of Christian Nationalism. If Faust and her group cared about families, they would tackle issues which are actual problems for families such poverty, job insecurity, and healthcare.
My words below are very apt for this moment - Bring it on, bitches. The concepts of "marriage" and "family" do not belong to you. You don't get to call it "your ball that you're going to take away."
You didn't learn anything from your last spanking on this issue, so I guess a repeat is definitely in order.
Bring it on, bitches. https://t.co/46B5BsJFNI
— Holy Bullies (@holybullies) April 30, 2026
Tuesday, April 28, 2026
Sorry Family Research Council. SPLC may be indicted for now, but you're still a hate group (and I have the 'receipts' to prove it.)
The Southern Poverty Law Center is in the news because a grand jury indicted it last week on federal charges. What it looks like to a lot of people is a witch hunt against a prominent organization with a long history of fighting the Klan, Neo-Nazis, the anti-LGBTQ industry, and others who push bigotry.
To hear the Trump Administration - and its ecosystem on Twitter, etc - SPLC was actually funding the racism it claimed to be fighting. But the SPLC and others are pushing back on this claim.
The Nation called the case "bogus" and a "dog whistle to white nationalists." Senator Chuck Schumer accused the Trump Administration of turning the Department of Justice into a "Department of Vengeance." Others have pointed out the specious nature of the charges and called the case "absurd." SPLC has publicly accused acting U.S. Attorney General Todd Blanche of lying and has brought "receipts," so to speak.
But for the purpose of this blog post, I want to focus on certain organizations - particularly one organization - which are no doubt looking forward to how much they can drag SPLC before this drama is over.
In 2010, the Southern Poverty Law Center designated certain religious right organizations (such as The Family Research Council, the American Family Association) as hate groups. Other groups such as the Alliance Defending Freedom and Moms for Liberty were added in later years. This was due to how these groups spread slander against LGBTQ people via junk science, cherry-picked science, and out-and-out lies with the goal of eliminating LGBTQ equality, health and safety. SPLC pointed out that while these groups claimed to oppose the LGBTQ community based on Christian principles, their tactics were anything but Christian.
Fast forward to 2026 and these groups hold a lot of power within the Trump Administration. My personal opinion is that some of them played a part in pushing for these indictments. And that they will exploit said indictments to have some "payback" against SPLC and reframe the arguments lodged against them.
To be honest, I am looking forward it to. While I completely support SPLC, I am looking forward to reminding the new generation of folks just how dishonest these so-called Christian groups are.
In 2011, I published a column pointing past incidents in which the Family Research Council and its director, Tony Perkins, used distorted work and lies to cast LGBTQ people as disease-ridden, oversexed, unhappy pedophiles out to destroy American society and cause general mayhem.
Below are the incidents, plus a general update:
August 15, 2011 - GLSEN (the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network) issues a cease-and-desist letter against the Family Research Council demanding that the organization remove video falsely accusing GLSEN of distributing an explicit safe-sex guide to children. FRC subsequently changed the video, tacitly admitting that it was pushing a falsehood against GLSEN.
June 13, 2011 - Two years after claiming to remove "studies" from its website because they contained "outdated material," FRC sneaks the studies back on its website. One of the studies includes citations to the work of Paul Cameron, a highly discredited researcher who once accused gays of stuffing gerbils up their rectums.
February 28, 2011 - In order to defend the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), FRC distorts research in order to compare gay men to pedophiles.
February 16, 2011 - FRC spokesman Peter Sprigg makes the claim that same-sex households are inferior to two-parent heterosexual households by using studies which have nothing to do with same-sex households. Sprigg, by the way, has earlier voiced opinions that gays should be exported out of the United States:
August 13, 2010 - Sprigg claims that openly gay Obama appointee David Hansell will cut funds from states that don't allow gay adoption. Sprigg claims that "private sources" told him so. Strangely enough, original article where Sprigg made this claim, the right-wing CNSNews.com was pulled.
July 29, 2010 - The Family Research Council distorts the words of AIDS researcher Ronald Stall to make the case against the repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell and ENDA (Employment Non-Discrimination Act.)
July 6, 2010 - Sprigg pushes a pamphlet, The Top Ten Myths About Homosexuality, which not only repeats discredited anti-lgbt accuracies but exposes a bit of trickery on Sprigg's part. He cites only part of pro-lgbt information which talks about diseases and negative behaviors but omits the information which talks about how homophobia plays a part in these diseases and negative behaviors.
May 10, 2010 - The Family Research Council distorts the words of President Obama's director of the U.S. Office of Personnel Management John Berry.
April 16, 2010 - Tony Perkins makes a false accusation that homosexuality and pedophilia are connected by using a Netherlands study which doesn't even prove his point.
January 7, 2010 - The Family Research Council exploits the presidential appointment of transgender woman Amanda Simpson to call ENDA (Employment Non-Discrimination Act) a "Crossdresser Protection Bill."
November 23, 2009 - The Family Research Council was caught distorting Congresswoman Diana DeGette's words to make her seem like she was espousing religious bigotry.
October 27, 2009 - In an attack on lgbt seniors, the Family Research Council echoes the phony belief of Paul Cameron that lgbts don't live long enough to become elderly.
October 01, 2009 - In Congressional testimony, Perkins practices the "sin of omission" in his testimony against ENDA (Employment Non-Discrimination Act).
May 20, 2009 - The Family Research Council pushes a fraudulent study, Comparing the Lifestyles of Homosexual Couples to Married Couples. It's a bad study specifically because it uses outdated work and compares married United States couples to unmarried gay couples in casual relationships from other parts of the world.
Thursday, April 23, 2026
Conservative social media influencer resurrects decade-old debunked study to bash gay parenting
| Michael Knowles |
Earlier this week, failed actor and successful conservative social media influencer (which really isn't a stretch from failed actor) Michael Knowles thought he was cooking with the following tweet about gay parenting:
His goal was to prove that gay parenting was not good for children. What he ended up proving was how folks on his side of the spectrum rely on junk science to craft false conclusions.
One source who Knowles refers to as Sullins is Catholic University priest and professor Paul Sullins. He has written papers attacking gay parenting. The flaws in these papers have been pointed out on many occasions.
In 2016, Nathaniel Frank of The Slate had this to say about his methods:
. . . Sullins’ most recent study was published in an Egyptian-based open access journal that requires authors to pay for publication, creating a conflict of interest since publishers who ought to perform quality control have a financial incentive to accept papers, regardless of quality. The journal’s publisher has been criticized for a lax peer-review process that isn’t even overseen by a real editor.
. . . In (Sullins; study), he claims “adults raised by same-sex parents were at over twice the risk of depression” developing later in life as those raised by different-sex couples. He calls it the “first study to examine children raised by same-sex parents into early adulthood” and claims it “contribute[s] new information for understanding of the effects of same-sex parenting through the life-course transition into early adulthood.” Except, as with the other studies making similar claims, it does no such thing. Sullins found 20 cases of what he calls “adolescents with same-sex parents.”
Yet we know nothing about how long these subjects lived with a same-sex couple, much less whether they were “raised” by one. In fact, we know from other research (and common sense, mixed with a dose of history) that the majority of individuals with a gay parent were born into families that were not headed by same-sex parents, but by either single parents or a different-sex couple. Sullins thus has no grounds on which to define his subjects as having been “raised” by “same-sex parents,” which would be essential for his entire anti-LGBTQ claim to make any sense.
The other source Knowles mentioned is a doozy:
Children of LGBT parents fare worse on 77/80 social outcome measures (Regnerus, 2012).In meetings hosted by the Heritage Foundation in Washington in late 2010, opponents of same-sex marriage discussed the urgent need to generate new studies on family structures and children, according to recent pretrial depositions of two witnesses in the Michigan trial and other participants. One result was the marshaling of $785,000 for a large-scale study by Mark Regnerus, a meeting participant and a sociologist at the University of Texas . . .. . . . Among those at the Heritage meetings was Luis E. Tellez, president of the Witherspoon Institute, a religious-conservative research center in Princeton, N.J. His organization seized the baton, signing up Dr. Regnerus, who was known as a skilled quantitative researcher, mainly on adolescent sexuality and religion, and as a Roman Catholic and opponent of same-sex marriage. The institute gave Dr. Regnerus $695,000; the Bradley Foundation, a grant-making organization that supports conservative causes, gave him $90,000, according to his résumé.
Question: What do the following all have in common?A heterosexually married female prostitute who on rare occasion services womenA long-term gay couple who adopt special-needs childrenA never-married straight male prison inmate who sometimes seeks sexual release with other male inmatesA woman who comes out of the closet, divorces her husband, and has a same-sex relationship at age 55, after her children are grownTed Haggard, the disgraced evangelical pastor who was caught having drug fueled-trysts with a male prostitute over a period of several yearsA lesbian who conceives via donor insemination and raises several children with her long-term female partner
Give up? The answer—assuming that they all have biological or adopted adult children between the ages of 18 and 39—is that they would all be counted as “Lesbian Mothers” or “Gay Fathers” in Mark Regnerus’s new study, “How different are the adult children of parents who have same-sex relationships? Findings from the New Family Structures Study” (NFSS).
"Whether same-sex parenting causes the observed differences cannot be determined from Regnerus' descriptive analysis," said Cynthia Osborne, associate professor at the Lyndon B. Johnson School of Public Affairs at The University of Texas at Austin."Children of lesbian mothers might have lived in many different family structures, and it is impossible to isolate the effects of living with a lesbian mother from experiencing divorce, remarriage or living with a single parent. Or it is quite possible that the effect derives entirely from the stigma attached to such relationships and to the legal prohibitions that prevent same-sex couples from entering and maintaining 'normal relationships'."
Tuesday, April 21, 2026
From the HB & HM archives - All of the 'evil and dirty' things that the gays do
Editor's note - September 2026 will mark the 20th year anniversary of Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters. In celebration, I will from time to time republish some of my favorite blog posts of the past. This one itself (published in 2021) is actually a shortened version of a 2014 post. It's more succinct and very apt at this moment in the country, especially taking into account yesterday's post involving the gay parents being accused by a far-right influencer of endangering their infant son.
Yesterday, courtesy of People for the American Way's Right Wing Watch, I read Ohio anti-gay activist Phil Burress make a claim that gay men have "as many as 200 sex partners."
A day later, Burress' outrageous claim continues to haunt me not only for its inanity but because it brings to focus something which has been dwelling in my mind for a long time in little bits and pieces.
I've read and heard so accusations against the lgbt community by the religious right that I've now come to the conclusion that these folks are just sloppy with what they say. Seriously, it's as if they don't care that eventually, someone will demonstrate just how incoherent their claims are.
So with that in mind, bear with me here. The following are the claims made about the lgbt community over the years by religious right and anti-gay activists:
Gays are sick people:
Their [gay] minds are perverted, they’re frankly sick people psychologically, mentally, and emotionally.” – Bishop EW Jackson
Yet almost all gays make lots of money:
“You know, I saw yesterday how much -- how much money the homosexual community has. I mean, good gracious, the average homosexual makes four times more than I do . . . I mean, they're not -- these people are not in poverty or hurting or denied or anything else.” – Donald Wildmon, American Family Association
Gays are only a small part of the population:
“Relying on three large data sets: the General Social Survey, the National Health and Social Life Survey, and the U.S. census, a recent study in Demography estimates the number of exclusive male homosexuals in the general population at 2.5 percent and exclusive lesbians at 1.4 percent.” – Family Research Council in its inaccurate brief “Homosexuality and Child Abuse”
Yet gays “control” the culture:
“Homosexual activists in many ways, drive our culture, they decide what’s going to be in a movie, we see all the portrayals, homosexuals are the most positively portrayed in the movies and on television.” – Peter LaBarbera, Americans for Truth
Gays “bully” all of those who oppose them:
“Instead, what we have is the gay Gestapo who go out and try to intimidate morally, economically, professionally, and personally anyone who speaks out against the homosexual agenda.” – Jeffrey Kuhner, The Washington Times
Gays “Recruit” children:
“. . . Folks who cannot reproduce want to recruit your children. What we are facing is a radical force of people who want to change what America looks for the next twenty years . . .” – Bishop Harry Jackson
And are plotting to either destroy or change America and “silence” Christians:
“Those special gay rights would require Christians not to speak against –would require us Christians not to speak against homosexual rights . . . because if we did, we could be charged with bullying or censored for it.” – Buster Wilson, American Family Association
“Through a carefully crafted, decades-old propaganda campaign, homosexuals have successful cast homosexuals - many of whom enjoy positions of influence and affluence - as a disadvantage minority” – Matt Barber, Unmasking the “Gay” Agenda
And while generating all of this mayhem, gays still manage to find time to have all sorts of mind-boggling wild sex with multiple partners:
“One study determined that homosexual males have from between 20 to 106 sexual partners per year. It’s no wonder that homosexual men account for over 50% of all hepatitis cases, and still account for over 50% of all AIDS cases despite the fact that they only make up 1-3% of the population.” – Matt Barber, The Gay Agenda vs. Family Values, December 12, 2004
“Homosexual activists claim their lifestyle, which in some cases includes thousands of sexual partners, should be sanctioned, protected, and granted special rights by society. Would you critique this stance?“ – a question on Dr. James Dobson's web page. Dobson is the former head of Focus on the Family.
Allow me to surmise. According to the religious right, the lgbt community is comprised of sad and sick individuals who make a lot of money, who are only a very small of the population but yet control the culture, bully those who oppose us, recruit children, and work to silence Christians and alter America while finding the time to have lots and lots and lots of sex.
Wow! How do we find time to do all of that? How do we find time to be all of that?
Monday, April 20, 2026
While RFK, Jr's anti-trans policy is struck down in federal court, gay father 'handles his business' against influencer's attack on his family
Two incidents took place the past weekend which piqued my interest so much that I couldn't spotlight just one. One involved a much-needed court victory for the trans community, while the other could be seen as a bit more complicated.
Item 1 - From The Advocate:
A federal judge in Oregon on Saturday forcefully struck down Health and Human Services Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr.’s attempt to impose far-reaching restrictions on gender-affirming care for minors, ruling the policy unlawful and blocking its enforcement in the states that challenged it.
In a final judgment dated April 18, U.S. District Judge Mustafa T. Kasubhai vacated the so-called "Kennedy Declaration," finding it exceeded the administration’s authority, violated federal rulemaking requirements, and conflicted with existing law. The court held that federal officials "lack the authority to unilaterally establish standards of care" for gender-affirming treatment and cannot exclude providers from Medicare or Medicaid for offering care consistent with accepted medical guidelines.
Judge Kasubhai also permanently enjoined the federal government from enforcing the declaration or any similar policy against providers in the plaintiff states, ordering agencies to halt enforcement and notify officials within seven days.
To say that Judge Mustafa T. Kasubhai simply went off against RFK, Jr and his attempt to restrict gender-affirming care for trans youth would be an understatement. Judge Kasubhai made it very clear where he stood:
“Unserious leaders are unsafe. There is nothing more serious than our leaders’ dedication to the rule of law so that we might maintain the integrity of our constitutional democracy,” Kasubhai wrote. “This case highlights a leader’s unserious regard for the rule of law,” the judge continued, adding that such disregard “does not merely result in an abstract infraction” but “causes very real harm to very real people.”
. . . The opinion sharply criticized the policy's rollout, noting that Kennedy “unlawfully issued a declaration threatening to cut federal funding” to medical providers and failed to follow required rulemaking procedures. If the administration had acted lawfully, the judge wrote, “there might have been ample time and opportunity” for providers, families, and children — “all people and institutions of our great nation” — to adjust or seek alternatives. Instead, the abrupt threat of enforcement “caused chaos and terror for all those people and institutions of our great nation.”
I have no doubt that the Trump Administration will appeal this decision . . . after it is done licking its wounds.
Now to Item 2 and it is controversial.
From LGBTQNation:
A gay dad of an infant has been charged with a felony after an altercation with a right-wing media personality who questioned his and his husband’s ability to raise a baby without a mother. Video circulating on social media shows Anthony Vulin, a member of West Hollywood’s Business License Commission, and his husband, David Vulin, being interviewed by anti-LGBTQ+ commentator Ryley Niemi. Anthony Vulin told the WeHo Times that the interview team lied to the couple and told them they were from CNN.
“We were walking home on Santa Monica Boulevard,” he said. “There were four guys – three of them had cameras and one of them had a suit on and a mic. They said they were from CNN and wanted to talk to us about our baby.” But it soon became clear the interviewer was not from CNN as he began to ask them hostile and homophobic questions.
Feel free to read the rest of the article or see the above footage. Long story short - After Niemi implied that the couple were predators "buying children," one daddy held the child while the other "took care of business." While I am not one for violence except for in the case of self-defense, I stand with the father. Completely, wholeheartedly, and unapologetically.
The funny part of it all is while Niemi is trying to generate support and pity for what happened to him, a lot of folks on social media - on the left, middle, AND right support the gay couple.
Unfortunately, though:
David Vulin was arrested for assaulting Niemi but released after about 12 hours, according to Anthony Vulin. He was ultimately charged with a felony for “vandalism with loss valued equal or greater than $400” for allegedly damaging a camera. Anthony Vulin told the WeHo Times he did no such thing.
Both the Vulins and Niemi have launched GoFundMe campaigns. I will not link to Niemi's site but go here if you want to help the Vulins.
And I want to make a general comment about the incident.
In the past months, there has been an acceleration on social media attacking same-sex families. Far-right commentators such as Matt Walsh have been attacking our families, while far-right influencers have been pushing out-of-context videos to denigrate gay parents. They seek to create a narrative that gay parents are rich men "buying children" via surrogacy in order to treat the children like accessories or, even worse, attain the children for sexual purposes.
We all know this is a lie, but we also know how those on the far-right will constantly repeat a lie in order to drown out the truth. I anticipate that we are going to see more stunts like Niemi's and more ugly lies told about our families in the near future. And while our responses need not be as violent as Mr. Vulin, an aggressive tone is very suitable.
In other words, DO NOT F@K with our families.






