Sunday, April 10, 2022

Video Flashback 1987 - Gay Rights in the middle of the AIDS crisis


I ran across this video featuring an episode of the ABC news program Nightline from 1987. The subject was Gay Rights in the middle of the AIDS crisis. It's an eye opener to see  how LGBTQ people were referred to and talked about in the 80s. Check it out, particularly the debate beginning at 7:01.

Aside from the fact that Fox News personality Britt Hume worked at ABC and  actually embraced a more objective view of presenting the news back then, I was taken aback seeing - and remembering - the ugly verbiage thrown at LGBTQ people, ,particularly when folks were making accusations about our supposed sex lives.

Thursday, April 07, 2022

Someone called me a 'groomer' today . . . big mistake


Someone called me a groomer today. 

If you've been keeping up with things, you would know that conservatives and others on the right are using the word 'groomer' to imply that gays are pedophiles. It's no different than when they used to say that we 'recruit' children.

Before deciding whether or not to respond, I took a moment to think about what being called a 'groomer' meant. I thought about how when I was younger,  it would have deeply hurt my feelings. 

How it would have reminded me about how alone I felt and how society despised who I was. 

How it would have reinforced the notion that my life had been decided for me by people who wanted to box me up in accordance to their beliefs and prejudices.  People who didn't care about my worth because the only thing they knew was that I was gay and therefore to them, I was a less than;  a diseased, pitiful sinner trying to go after their children and infect everyone with AIDS.

And how I was probably doomed to a sad life filled with misery, loneliness, and self-hatred because of all of the hate thrown at me.

All in all, it was the saddest five seconds of my life. 

That is before I said f@ck it and responded back with an immature but very satisfying comeback:


I'm in no mood to apologize, capitulate, or play nice with anyone trying to take away the rights and peace of mind I've earned. And neither should you. Whether it be on Twitter or when it comes to legislation designed to take us down, we shouldn't sit back and allow things to be taken from us. No matter what you hear, always remember that you have a voice and an ability to fight.  

Use them, albeit not being as petty as I was.

'KY teacher resigns after controversy over positive LGBTQ message' & other Thur midday news briefs



Ky. teacher resigns after controversy over pro-LGBTQ message - Another example of how all of this anti-LGBTQ hysteria is simply inane. 




Lia Thomas won a national title, then had two poorer showings in finals. Everyone is claiming they were vindicated. - My heart goes out to her. All she wants to do is compete and she has to deal with all of the mess.

Wednesday, April 06, 2022

DeSantis misled people about incident he claimed was a reason for 'Don't Say Gay' bill


Florida Gov Ron DeSantis misled people about an incident he claimed was a reason for the 'Don't Say Gay' bill.

And here we go again with a scenario so old that I can recite it with my eyes closed.

An alleged incident takes place which puts LGBTQ people in an awful light. The religious right and its allies amplify the incident in the media, Twitter, etc. and that causes LGBTQ people to play defense. After all of the hoopla and the controversy, we discover that said incident was A. not as drastic as the religious right and its allies portrayed it or B. extensively distorted. And when the truth comes out, it's ignored because folks are too exhausted to care.

For this particular episode of the scenario, I present Florida Governor Ron DeSantis and his reasoning behind the state's 'Don't Say Gay' bill he recently signed into law.

From CNN:

Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis has repeatedly pointed to the case of a family in the state's Leon County to explain the need for a controversial new law, dubbed by critics the "Don't Say Gay" bill, that bans schools from teaching about sexual orientation or gender identity, particularly to young children. 
On several occasions since signing the bill into law, DeSantis has highlighted the story of a woman named January Littlejohn, a registered Republican, who says she was not fully consulted about the school's gender-affirming plan for her child. 
"We had a mother from Leon County, and her daughter was going to school and some people in the school had decided that the daughter was really a boy and not a girl. So they changed the girl's name to a boy's name, had her dress like a boy and on doing all this stuff, without telling the mother or getting consent from the mother. First of all, they shouldn't be doing that at all. But to do these things behind the parents' back and to say that the parents should be shut out. That is wrong," DeSantis said during a news conference in Jasper, Florida, on Tuesday.

It turns out that DeSantis's story is wrong. Completely wrong. CNN did a fact check and discovered, according to emails, that Mrs. Littlejohn knew full well what was going on. In fact, she was the one who notified the school about her trans son:

CNN obtained emails that show Littlejohn wrote the school in 2020 and notified a teacher that her child wanted to change pronouns. Contrary to the governor's portrayal of the story, Littlejohn also wrote that she would not stop her child from using preferred pronouns or name of choice at school. Littlejohn references these emails in her lawsuit against the school and they were reported by the Tallahassee Democrat in November. 

 . . In an August 27, 2020, email to a teacher, Littlejohn stated, in part, "This has been an incredibly difficult situation for our family and her father and I are trying to be as supportive as we can. She is currently identifying as non-binary. She would like to go by the new name [redacted] and prefers the pronouns they/them. We have not changed her name at home yet, but I told her if she wants to go by the name [redacted] with her teachers, I won't stop her." 

The teacher thanked Littlejohn and asked if she should share with other teachers. Littlejohn explained it was difficult and confusing, and went on to write, "Whatever you think is best or [redacted] can handle it herself." In another email the same day, Littlejohn told the teacher, "This gender situation has thrown us for a loop. I sincerely appreciate your support. I'm going to let her take the lead on this."

According to CNN, Littlejohn filed a lawsuit against the school because she claimed that after this email, the school went behind her and her husband's back and created a Transgender/Gender Nonconforming Student Support Plan with the child. She also claimed that she was denied access to information.

However, the school district spokesperson said the following:

"From the moment Mrs. Littlejohn first emailed her child's teacher to inform our staff of the situation, this has been handled together in partnership with clear communication. We understand that outside entities have now become involved, but the family clearly instructed the school staff via email to allow their child to 'take the lead on this' and to do 'whatever you think is the best,' " Chris Petley, Leon County Schools communications coordinator, said in a statement to CNN.

The outside entities Petley is talking about are the attorneys hired by Littlejohn. They are from the Child & Parental Rights Campaign, a right-wing anti-trans group.

So basically we are now the tail end of  the scenario I described above.. The only saving grace is that DeSantis and the religious right hopes to drag this nonsense on to the midterms. And that's fine with me because it gives us more time and incentive to bust them for their lies.

'10 LGBTQ women running to make history this year' & other Wed midday news briefs



10 LGBTQ women running to make history this year - Go, ladies! Go! 

Trump's Policies Tried to Tear This Gay Father and Son Apart — The Dad Won - Another reminder of how the Trump Administration targeted LGBTQ people. 



Library study finds most 'challenged' books soared in 2021 - Five of the most challenged were LGBTQ books.

Tuesday, April 05, 2022

Mickey Mouse is NOT holding a penis, my friend

All of these accusations of pedophilia against Disney by Florida governor Ron DeSantis, Fox News, and the rest of the loony right are dangerous on so many levels. Especially how it encourages copycat behavior like below, courtesy of  Right Wing Watch:


So can you see Mickey holding a penis? I don't know and I don't care. I don't make it a practice to look for subliminal sexual images in children's products.  But truth be told, I don't blame this guy for being so ignorantly empowered.

The folks who should be blamed are DeSantis, Fox News, and others who know what power of suggestion they have over some people. And have no problem with perverting it.