Analyzing and refuting the inaccuracies lodged against the lgbt community by religious conservative organizations. Lies in the name of God are still lies.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Just what the tea party movement needs - Peter LaBarbera
Just in case you are still relying on establishment liberal media like the Associated Press (AP) to get your news, here are some startling photos and links documenting the mammoth, conservative “Tea Party Express” march in our nation’s capital Saturday, September 12th. This was a grassroots taxpayers’ protest of historic proportions — not in the “tens of thousands,” as AP misreported, but between one and two million people coming to make their voice heard in Washington.
That's right. It's not the fault of Matt Kibbe, president of FreedomWorks, who spread the lie that ABC News had reported that between 1 million to 1.5 million people had gathered to protest.
Nor it is Michelle Malkin's fault even though she helped to spread this lie. Nor is it the fault of the assorted nuts of conservative talking heads and bloggers.
It's the "damned liberal media" again.
And LaBarbera has "proof " of this.
But like so much of his information, his "proof" is inaccurate:
Obviously moved by the enormity of the 9/12 march, the British newspaper Daily Mail — hardly sympathetic to American conservatives — reported (emphasis added): “A million march to US Capitol to protest against ‘Obama the socialist.’” However, the Daily Mail’s original headline was: “Up to two million march to US Capitol to protest against Obama’s spending in ‘tea-party’ demonstration” (it appears that the DM’s editors made some politically correct revisions);
To dwell on the alleged political leanings of the Daily Mail is an evasive tactic. If one looks at the article, they would find that it does not cite any sources for its claim
Malkin’s follow-up web article: “Celebrating the 9/12 rallies; Turnout estimated at 2 million” ;
If you clicked on this link, you would see that Malkin updated the "article" saying that the 2 million number was inaccurate - something that LaBarbera conveniently omits.
WorldNetDaily.com story on 9/12: “A million or more rock Washington: Taxpayer march could be biggest rally ever in capital”;
WND founder Joseph Farah’s column: “The shameful non-coverage of 9/12″;
Isn't World Net Daily the same group that's pushing the "Obama is not an American citizen" lie?
Rather than pushing factual information courtesy of Politifact, such as this piece questioning a photo of the event, and Mediamatters.org, which tracked the attendance number lie put out by conservatives, LaBarbera does a poor job of trying to bring relevancy to this madness by reprinting refuted information and then blaming the media for the ineptitude of the tea baggers in their attempts to deceive.
And of course he tries to link it all to lgbts:
What does all this have to do with the fight against the Homosexual Lobby? Well, for one, beyond the health care debate, the Obama Administration is pushing to enact a comprehensive “gay” agenda that would greatly expand the government’s power to effectively force businesses and individuals to approve of or subsidize homosexual and “transgender” lifestyles. The Employment Nondiscrimination Act (ENDA) — slated for hearings next week — would create federal homosexuality- and transsexuality-based “rights” for employees. This would invariably circumscribe the liberties of business owners who oppose homosexuality as a matter of conscience.
We trust that the same people who oppose Big Government intruding into our lives will resist the idea that the Government should be forcing businessmen and businesswomen to support homosexual behavior and gender confusion or risk getting sued.
This is the point where I usually attempt to bring clarity to LaBarbera's nonsense.
But I can't right now because I'm too busy laughing.
Monday, September 14, 2009
South Carolina Pride rocked last weekend and I've got the pictures to prove it
It was a rousing success!
This will be the picture of the year. SC Pride President Ryan Wilson proposes to his partner on stage in front of SC Pride attendees. He said yes! And yes, the ring is (as a friend of mine would say) FAABULOOUUUSSSS! Joan Rivers would approve.
Who is that gorgeous black man at the end who has no idea how to hold a sign. Next year, South Carolina Black Pride will be riding a float, even if we have to commandeer one!
Frenchie Davis turned it out!
Other pictures:




To see more pictures, go here and here.
To see media coverage and videos of the event, go here.
African-American gospel singer comes out, gay adoptive dad gets federal help, and other Monday midday news briefs
Stand For Marriage Maine: The ties they wish to hide keep getting more binding!- Supposed Christian people want to hide their dirty ties. Go get 'em Jeremy!
Gay adoptive dad gets help to receive subsidy - This is good news indeed!
Nadler to unveil DOMA repeal bill Tuesday - Rep. Barney Frank does not agree with how it's being done. And personally I respect his opinion. Please, no hyperbole of "Barney Frank sold gays out." The swiftness in which some of us like to get the knives out is not necessarily a community saving grace.
Obama lied, his credibility died - Not necessarily an lgbt article per se, but it is written by LaBarbera's replacement (that's his new name) Matt Barber. There is a line in this piece about Obama and Chappaquiddick (the scandal with Mary Jo Kephecne's death that haunted Sen. Ted Kennedy until his dying day) that illustrates the phoniness of those who oppose lgbt rights. No doubt Barber thought he was being amusing. He comes across as disgusting. But he is what passes for Christianity in America these days.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Parents sue to keep school children from learning about bullying, lgbt families
Angry Parents Suing California Schools Over Mandatory Gay-Friendly Classes
Parents in the Alameda Unified School District were refused the right to excuse their kids from classes that would teach all kids in the district's elementary schools about gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender alternative families.
The parents say they are concerned about "indoctrination" in the schools, but administrators say the course is needed to protect against sexual discrimination — and that the lessons are protected by laws in California and 10 other states.
Those states, which stretch from Washington to Maine, will now be eyeing the court results in California in a case that warring sides say pits parents' rights against a schools' responsibilities
Shades of the David Parker incident, but without the histronics of a parent orchestrating a phony moral panic and engaging in lies about his child "being taught about gay sex."
But one wonders if that implication of children "being taught how to be gay" is behind all of these concerns.
As this story continues to be known, this little detail will probably be obscured:
The contested California curriculum includes an annual 45-minute LGBT lesson taught to kids from kindergarten through the fifth grade. The kindergartners will focus on the harms of teasing, while the fifth graders will study sexual orientation stereotypes.
The move toward the new classes began two years ago, when teachers noticed that even kindergarten students were using derogatory words about sexuality, such as "fag."
We'll probably hear talking points about "corrupting children" and questions of "why can't schools just focus on reading, writing, and arithmetic."
I've already seen carefully phrased comments about kindergartners "learning about sexual behavior."
One of the parents opposinig the curriculum does have a point regarding what children should be taught:
"My child has been the product of bullying because she's black," said Dion Evans, who noted that students have "never viewed a single video in the classroom" that deals with racism.
I don't know if Evans's claim is totally accurate (about racism not being dealt with in his child's class), but there does need to be something in place which teaches students to show respect for all people and all positive family environments.
And here is the problem. If such a mechanism was in place, just how long would it be before some phony pro-family group, some self-appointed guardian of the definition of "traditional values" would lobby school districts to exclude lgbt families?
But to put things in the here-and-now, just which one of these "morality groups" are behind the parental lawsuit?
The problem here does not lie with the school, but with some of the parents. They seem to be embracing an inaccurate notion that lgbts aren't raising children; that we aren't parents with concerns about how our children and family situations aren't being acknowledged in the classrooms. And these parents are also embracing the more deadly notion that lgbt children do not exist.
This is not a situation involving parents' rights because the schools aren't infringing on them. And yes these classes should be mandatory. What's wrong with teaching kindergartners the harm of teasing their classmates? What's wrong with breaking down sexual orienation stereotypes? What's wrong with acknowledging the existence of so-called alternative (but still highly beneficial) families?
It's a matter of simple fairness.
Tea bagging leader busted by ABC News for distorting attendance numbers
And now comes the echo chamber of lies that will be propagated no doubt by Fox News, the phony religious folks at One News Now, and other right wing battle stations.
Such as the claim pushed by Matt Kibbe, president of FreedomWorks, the group that organized the event. He said that ABC News reported that 1 million to 1.5 million people were in attendance.
However, ABC News has come out swinging against this claim:
Conservative activists, who organized a march on the U.S. Capitol today in protest of the Obama administration's health care agenda and government spending, erroneously attributed reports on the size of the crowds to ABC News.
Matt Kibbe, president of FreedomWorks, the group that organized the event, said on stage at the rally that ABC News was reporting that 1 million to 1.5 million people were in attendance.
At no time did ABC News, or its affiliates, report a number anywhere near as large. ABCNews.com reported an approximate figure of 60,000 to 70,000 protesters, attributed to the Washington, D.C., fire department. In its reports, ABC News Radio described the crowd as "tens of thousands."
Brendan Steinhauser, spokesman for FreedomWorks, said he did not know why Kibbe cited ABC News as a source.
I know why Kibbe cited ABC News as a source for his lie. Because of this:
As a result of Kibbe's erroneous attribution, several bloggers and commenters repeated the misinformation.
Now that these bloggers and commenters know the truth (and I suspect a number of them knew that Kibbe's claim was specious at best) how many of them will:
A. do the right thing and correct what they said about attendance numbers,
B. accuse ABC News of being in on "THE CONSPIRACY to make the country socialist,"
C. entirely ignore the situation over Kibbe's comments.
I wonder how Kibbe would feel if people followed him around screaming "You Lie!" or created t-shirts and bumper sticker with the phrase emblazoned across his picture?
Whatever the case may be, it's a sad commentary for any movement who feels that it has to fight distortions by engaging in a few of its own.
Repost - What some people really think of gay marriage
And notice how neither entity wants to acknowledge the existence of lgbt children and same-sex families that include children.
Maybe it's just me but marriage equality coming to New Hampshire seems to have left some members of the religious right a bit dazed.
One News Now has yet to report on it and my usually reliable anti-gay Peter LaBarbera hasn't said a word yet.
Even Focus on the Family have been strangely silent.
But not everyone is silent.
Someone alerted me to this tract from Chick Publications. Chick Publications is a site that publishes cartoon gospel tracts. You may have seen these various tracts in a doctor's office or at the bus stop.
It is an old tract (it was created in 2004) and while it does not address marriage equality in New Hampshire per se, it's safe to say that the creator doesn't exactly care for gay marriage at all.
The following are some snippets from the tract:




Judge for yourself but I tend to think that minus the little imps, this is exactly the argument the religious right uses against marriage equality.
It's not exactly a logical argument when drawn out, is it?
Friday, September 11, 2009
Know your lgbt history - James Bond goes gay
For today's edition of Know your lgbt history, I wanted to feature something different, eclectic and semi-empowering.
Not too many people are aware of this but the motion picture Diamonds Are Forever (1971) is probably the gayest, most campiest movie in the James Bond series.
It's one of my favorites, although seeing how it fits into the James Bond chronology, campy wasn't necessarily a good way to go.
Diamonds Are Forever came after On Her Majesty's Secret Service starring George Lazenby who took over the role of James Bond from Sean Connery.
I won't even talk about the behind-the-scenes drama that led to Lazenby not doing another James Bond movie and producers wooing Connery back for one last go at Bond.
The onscreen drama was enough. At the end of On Her Majesty's Secret Service, Bond has just become a groom but quickly became a widower when villain Ernst Stavro Blofeld machine-gunned his bride.
Diamonds Are Forever should have been what later Bond movie License to Kill was - a movie devoted to vengeance. Instead, only the first five minutes was devoted to Bond finding and killing Blofeld.
Then he proceeded to stop diamond smugglers.
And by the power of strange screenwriting, it turns out that he didn't kill Blofeld after all (who do you think was leading the diamond smuggling operations?)
I won't rehash the plot. I just want to focus on my favorite James Bond henchmen, Mr. Kidd and Mr. Wint.
Wint (jazz musician Putter Smith) and Kidd (actor Bruce Glover) are definitely a gay couple, as seen by the end of the first scene after they put a scorpion down the back of a diamond smuggler and blow up a helicopter.
Subtlety is not this couple's strong suite and they cut a path of destruction, killing everyone who is a part of the diamond smuggling operation per instructions of Blofeld who will be using the diamonds as a part of a new plan of world conquest.
Although I find their deaths insulting - particularly that of Mr. Kidd, I still have a guilty pleasure of watching the two wreak havoc.
Past Know Your LGBT History postings:
Know your lgbt history - Windows
Know your lgbt history - To Wong Foo and Priscilla
Know your lgbt history - Blazing SaddlesKnow your lgbt history - Sanford and Son
Know your lgbt history - In Living Color
Know your lgbt history - Cleopatra Jones and her lesbian drug lords
Know your lgbt history - Norman, Is That You?
Know your lgbt history - The 'Exotic' Adrian Street
Know your lgbt history - The Choirboys
Know your lgbt history - Eddie Murphy
Know your lgbt history - The Killing of Sister George
Know your lgbt history - Hanna-Barbera cartoons pushes the 'gay agenda'
Know your lgbt history - Cruising
Know your lgbt history - Foxy Brown and Cleopatra Jones
Know your lgbt history - I Got Da Hook Up
Know your lgbt history - Fright Night
Know your lgbt history - Flowers of Evil
The Jeffersons and the transgender community
Non-whites victimized by Don't Ask, Don't Tell and other Friday midday news briefs
Minorities Make Up Half of DADT Firings - Yet another damn shame.
And now in 'talking about us behind our backs is just easier' news: Stand For Marriage Maine limits rally to own choir - What's the matter, NOM? Can't stand the heat?
California School Settles Antigay Suit - One News Now is going to freak.
Someone calls Walz 'faggot' before media conference call - Excuse me?
Joe Wilson puts President Obama and gays in the same world
Oh wait. Here is the latest conservative game plan - Wilson was wrong for the ourburst but was right because of the substance of the outburst.
Expect to hear that lie played over and over again, despite this little bit from the nonpartisan Politifact which says Wilson was wrong when he called the President a liar:
When we look at all of this evidence, it seems that health reform leaves in place the status quo on illegal immigration, and certainly does not provide any new benefits particularly for illegal immigrants. We hope to look at this issue more in the days ahead, because some hospitals are concerned about recouping their costs for treating illegal immigrants, and we're curious to know more about that problem and how it might or might not be solved by reform.
The best argument that we find that health reform would help illegal immigrants is that some might be able to purchase the public option — if it passes, and it might not — on the new health insurance exchange. They would purchase that at full cost. Obama said, "The reforms I’m proposing would not apply to those who are here illegally," which Wilson said was a "lie." Actually, Obama can make a pretty thorough case that reform doesn't apply to those here illegally. We don't find the public option argument enough to make the case that Obama "lied." We rate Wilson's statement False.
Of course who gives a damn about truth when you can exploit a polarizing talking point for yourself, eh Mr. Wilson.
And for those shaking their heads at the unbelievability of it all, welcome to the world where lgbts have existed for years.
Despite the debunking of so many claims of the religious right regarding lgbts (i.e. we have a short life span, we molest children, the vast majority of us spend a considerable amount of time bumping uglies with each other), these claims continue to be pushed as fact.
In other words, Wilson (and mostly the Republican party because I really don't think Wilson created this talking point on his own) is attacking the President the same way the religious right attacks lgbts; by pushing a headless monster.
A headless monster is an idea that has been debunked but refuses to die because of the stubborness of those repeating the claim and the gullibility of those believing the claim; such as the lie that "Obama's health plan protects illegal immigrants because Democrats shot down bills that specifically hinder them."
For those who like to note comparisons, this is pretty much the same lying argument we heard about hate crimes legislation, i.e. "hate crimes legislation will supposedly protect pedophiles because there are no amendments in it specifically barring pedophiles."
I've covered the pushing of headless monsters for over three years now and I'm starting to feel like a character in one of those George Romero zombie movies.
All in all, it's inane but it's also Washington politics. Even as I speak, the wheels of manipulation are turning. Although in this case, I don't think it is going to benefit conservatives.
As long as Wilson continues to desire the spotlight, Republicans are going to look like the mean-spirited partisan hacks that they are and at the same time they may unite folks behind the President's plan.
After all, nothing unites people more than the prospect of getting teed off.
But for now, I suggest the President do what I have done and what all lgbts have done all these years.
Hold your nose and beat off the zombies.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Peter LaBarbera sinks so low, even I'm beginning to pity him
A few days ago, LaBarbera ran a piece about the firing of actress Patricia Mauceri. Mauceri claimed that she was fired from the soap opera One Life to Live because she objected how her character would behave in a pro-gay storyline.
Yesterday, he took his "Mauceri is a victim of gay hate" factoid to an attack on blogger Joe Jervis, the author of the blog Joe.My.God.
Apparently LaBarbera put attention on some not very nice comments coming from readers about Mauceri.
Jervis got wind of it and posted something about LaBarbera. And now LaBarbera has posted something else about Jervis.
If that isn't bad enough, LaBarbera features a huge picture of Jervis while a picture of Mauceri clings on the edge like someone trying to sleep in the same bed as a mattress hog.
And it's not the first time LaBarbera has gone after Jervis, as this link demonstrates.
Notice how LaBarbera makes sure to describe Jervis in such illuminating tones as "Aethist homosexual blogger Joe Jervis" or "Leatherman Joe Jervis."
Peter, shouldn't this be about Mauceri and not Jervis?
I mean sooner or later, people are going to start to talk.
Now I'm not saying or implying in any way that LaBarbera has a thing for Jervis. But as you all can see, he does have a habit of veering off into strange territory.
Somewhere, Matt Barber is laughing his behind off.
Related posts:
Stopping the anti-ENDA Patricia Mauceri factoid before it starts
Peter LaBarbera - the self-destruction of an anti-gay activist
One News Now allows Matt Barber to make a fool of himself and other Thursday midday news briefs
White pride cesspooler calls Blend 'black pervert site' over criticism of Hank Williams, Jr. - One of my favorite online people, Pam Spaulding, is given a "dubious honor" by a hate site. I've been in an earring, wig snatching-off mood since last night. And this just makes my pressure go up a little bit more.
FDA Panel Backs Giving HPV Vaccine Gardasil to Young Males - Don't tell the religious right. It will just ruin their meme about gay men and genital warts.
The Right Finds a Prayer Rally It, For Once, Doesn't Like - Religious right hypocrisy on display.
'Judicial activism' alive and well at 3rd Circuit - One News Now must not like Matt Barber. That is the only explanation for this inexplicable article which seems to go out of its way to make him look like a bully. The article is talking about a case, which according to One News Now, says "A federal appeals court has ruled that an effeminate homosexual can pursue a claim that he was targeted for harassment on the job because of his mannerisms."
The thing is that the article does not even talk about the case, but allows Barber to pontificate in the ugly fashion like he usually does.
It's the classic case of letting someone cut his own throat.
Some Freepers defend Joe Wilson with time-honored racism
And let's face it - in light of all that's happened recently in this state regarding the hypocrisy of those who espouse "family values," (hello Governor Mark Sanford) I simply have to comment on the latest embarrassment, i.e. Rep. Joe Wilson.
The immediate reaction is one of shock and outrage from both sides of the aisle over his verbal attack on President Obama during his speech.
However, at Free Republic (where they would find reasons to lock up Little Red Riding Hood but set the wolf loose), things are slightly different:
Did our President really lie? What aspect of Obamacare was the POTUS being less than forthright? Why was Wilson so compelled to make an outburst? Was he totally frustrated with the complex and ever-changing legislation, with the lack of communication with the Marxist-leaning Democrats? If Wilson was correct, then should you and your fellow Democrats explain themselves better and apologize to the American people?
And Joe Wilson was on the verge of a fund raising boom himself for stating the truth. I even saw one posting here linking to his fund raising site. Unfortunately, by apologizing, he will probably not now get that boom and is being denounced by both sides.
Wilson will reap $$$$ ten-fold over Miller when the donations are counted . Bout’ time someone stood up to this “ brown clown “ !
The apology: "While I disagree with the President’s statement, my comments were inappropriate and regrettable. I extend sincere apologies to the President for this lack of civility.” Not for calling him a liar. I have no problem with that.
He’s lucky the Obamunists didn’t have him removed from the room and shot.
No apology for calling a spade a spade.
Way to go, guys.
I hear that Wilson's challenger has benefited greatly from this controversy. In the long run, though, I doubt this will have a long-term effect on Wilson. To some in this state, he will probably looked at as a hero.
Also, when we elect national representatives in this state, we keep them like luggage. And you know some people just can't get rid of luggage, no matter how beat up and broken down it is.
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
Rep. Joe Wilson confirms it - South Carolina has lost its mind
No doubt when Rep. Joe Wilson ran for the late Floyd Spence's seat, he wanted to make history.
You got your wish, Rep. Wilson.
You will be remembered for an absolutely ugly outburst during President Obama's speech on healthcare. An outburst so nasty, so rude that I'm actually going to watch Glenn Beck, read Michelle Malkin, and the posts on Free Republic to see just how they will justify it.
You will remembered for an outburst so nasty, so rude that it got teabaggers feeling sorry for the president.
And though you probably feel like a real dummy (because that's what you looked like - a real dummy), take solace in a few facts:
You were man enough to give an apology without making yourself into a martyr, some oddballs will actually think of you as a hero, and your name will be on the lips of probably every black pastor in the state.
Although on second thought, that last point may not be a good thing. They'll probably rehash your negative comments when Strom Thurmond black daughter, Essie Mae Washington-Williams, went public about her father.
But cheer up. You and other officials of this state have given me a good response to make the next time someone asks me why as an lgbt do I remain in South Carolina.
Now I can say:
"Are you kidding? We got an adulterous Governor, a possibly gay Lt. Governor, a former chair of the state education board who wrote pornography and a representative who can't control himself when a black president is speaking.
If I left now, I would probably miss the floor show."
Stopping the anti-ENDA Patricia Mauceri factoid before it starts
Will this be the face of the anti-ENDA fight?Yes she will be if Peter LaBarbera and the rest of the religious right has their way.
Here is the scoop:
Actress Patricia Mauceri says she was fired and abruptly replaced for objecting to a gay storyline because of her religious beliefs.
Mauceri played the recurring role of Carlotta Vega on "OLTL" for the last 14 years. But when she objected to how the writers wanted her deeply religious character, a Latina mother, to handle a storyline involving homosexuality, she objected. And for that she claims she was fired.
Mauceri, 59, a devout Christian, told FOX News that character Vega's gay-friendly dialogue was not in line with the character she helped create by drawing on her own faith.
"I did not object to being in a gay storyline. I objected to speaking the truth of what that person, how that person would live and breathe and act in that storyline," she said. "And this goes against everything I am, my belief system, and what I know the character's belief system is aligned to."
And of course before the entire story has come out, the vultures (i.e. Peter LaBarbera and company) have made Mauceri an example of what could happen if ENDA passes:
Reverse Discrimination? How’s this for a timely story for Labor Day — highlighting the current reality that Christians and traditionalists who oppose homosexuality are more likely to be fired or disciplined for their beliefs than homosexuals are for “being gay.” TAKE ACTION: Call your Congressman and Senators next week (202-224-2131; 202-225-3121; www.congress.org) and urge them to oppose ENDA — the Employment Nondiscrimination Act — which would federalize “sexual orientation” law and greatly expand government power to promote the “gay” agenda. ENDA would become a tool for the Left to use the state to force Christian and moral-minded business owners to promote and subsidize homosexuality and transsexuality against their will.
That's right. According to LaBarbera, forget the fact that you are a hard worker. If your boss finds out that you are an lgbt, then that should be reason enough to fire you.
But I digress. Naturally, LaBarbera is going to milk this situation for all it's worth, even posting a few nasty anti-Mauceri comments from a pro-lgbt blog.
Interestingly enough, it's a blog (Joe. My. God.) that for some reason constantly grinds LaBarbera's gears. He has mentioned the blog a few times this year.
Well since I'm not a psychiatrist, I will not speculate about that.
I personally think that people have sense enough to know that lgbts are not monolithic and a few ugly comments on a blog are not indicative of the entire community in general.
To think that would be the same as thinking that every "deeply religious person" opposes homosexuality. I guess that's what got Mauceri in trouble.
If LaBarbera really wants to read ugly comments, he should read what the folks on Free Republic said about President Obama's daughter Malia.
Really though, seems to me that the details of the story (i.e. the gay storyline) is immaterial. This situation has nothing to do with ENDA. Here we have a soap opera actress who has been reminded that she does not have the juice of a Susan Lucci or Erika Slezak. She is not a writer and she took it upon herself to refuse to play a character as it has been dictated to her by the writers and was penalized for it.
Was it fair? Maybe not. But that's life.
But to exploit the situation in order to justify discrimination against lgbts is wrong. Period.
Related posts:
How to counter religious right lies about ENDA
We are hurting Maggie Gallagher's feelings and other Wednesday midday news briefs
Judge rejects referendum 71 challenge - We lose again in Washington. Cry on your own time. Get ready to fight for your rights NOW.
Congress returns - much at stake for gays - And speaking of which . . .
The Religious Right's Miraculous Recovery - Anatomy of media-driven bull$!@(!
Maggie shocked -- SHOCKED! -- that gays won't let her anti-'live and let live' views live - Ms. Gallagher, you can believe any way that you want, but when you want to use the rule of law to deny people rights, don't expect them to "go gentle into that good night."
CA Anti-Gay Congressman’s Drippy Disclosure - Somebody needs Jesus!
My answer to David Mixner - no I'm not happy but I still don't support the National March
Are you really happy with the progress we have made over the last eight months with this Administration and Congress? Are you really happy with the progress we have made on the repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA)? Do you think that the leaders of our political parties have embraced marriage equality and our God given rights, benefits and protections that come with it? Are you content, relaxed and happy with where we are at this moment in history in the struggle for freedom?
Think very carefully about the above questions. Then make plans to come to Washington, DC on October 11th to march with thousands of your brothers, sisters and straight allies for freedom.
If you are like me, then most of you will be unhappy about any of the questions above. Almost NOTHING has been done in the last eight months by the president or Congress to take us dramatically closer to freedom.
It's an interesting piece that resembles a Sunday morning sermon. And that is the major problem I have with it. It, like the proposed march, is high on platitudes and hyperbole, but vague on courses of action. I wrote a response which I posted his blog:
I am still leaning against the National March. And to answer David's question - no I am not happy but with how things have been going for lgbts for a while now even BEFORE this administration took over. And that is the point of my disagreement. What took us so long to be angry. And why is our anger not directed against those who have maligned us?
I keep hearing all of these vague things- "a march will show how angry we are," "a march will energize us."
We've been angry for a while and America knows it. Should we be so consumed with again demonstrating our anger for the benefit of the public media. And what will we be energized to do? Are we going to go back and organize in our communities with a spirit of togetherness? Are we going to support our community organizations? Or are we going to assemble in our little cliques like we always do?
And I don't like the hypocrisy of the entire thing. We want to march to show our anger at how the Obama Administration is moving on our issues. Yet we can't dedicate as much energy to combat the lies of the religious right. Obama is not the one we should be angry at. It's those organizations that continue to lie on us. Let's be real. If ENDA was passed, if Don't Ask, Don't Tell was passed, if we got hate crimes legislation, could this community successfully fight against the religious right driven backlash that is sure to follow? Or would we so busy celebrating that when it does come, we run around like chickens with our heads cut off?
Forget the march. There needs to be a total overhaul on what exactly are we fighting for and who we should be angry at.
That is the way I have felt from the get-go and as we get closer to October, nothing said or done has changed my mind. And I'm not a stubborn, rigid person. Don't get me wrong; if the march does anything positive for the community then I will be one of the first to acknowledge it. However, I would like to see something a bit more concrete than just gathering together, holding signs, and "showing anger."
Tuesday, September 08, 2009
How to counter religious right lies about ENDA
However, not if the American Family Association can help it.
I found some talking points from the religious right group regarding ENDA. They are nothing more than evasions and appeals to fears about "gay sex" and "men invading women's restrooms."
I am posting the talking points and including a refutation with each one:
AFA - ENDA (H.R. 2981 - H.R. 3017 - S. 1584) has been changed from the "gay-only" version the House passed in 2007 to include language banning job discrimination based on "gender identity" as well as sexual orientation - complete with special protections for the transgendered. It would mean your child's teacher, if he were a male but "felt" like a female, could go into the women's bathroom.
Refutation - There have been many transgender-inclusive job discrimination bills passed statewide and citywide (including my city of Columbia, SC) but there has NEVER been a case of a man "claiming to feel like a female" invading women's bathrooms.
AFA - ENDA is aimed at providing heightened protections for a particular sexual behavior - homosexuality. It would grant special consideration on the basis of "sexual orientation" that would not be extended to other employees in the workplace.
Refutation - Potential employees are already federally protected in the case of race, religion, gender, and national origin. Adding sexual orientation does not single out gays and lesbians any more than gender singles out solely women or men.
AFA - ENDA violates employers' and employees' Constitutional freedoms of religion, speech and association. The proposed legislation would prohibit employers from taking their deeply held beliefs into account when making personnel decisions. This would pose an unprecedented intrusion by the federal government into people's lives.
Refutation - Translation: If a manager at a restaurant has a "deeply held belief" that homosexuality is a sin, he or she should have the right to fire an lgbt employee; at least that is what the AFA believes. However "deeply held beliefs" are no excuse for discrimination of any stripe. Also one could argue there is already "federal intrusion" in people's lives with the protections in the cases of race, religion, gender, and national origin.
AFA - ENDA would approvingly bring private behavior considered immoral by many into the public square. By declaring that all sexual preferences are equally valid, ENDA would change national policy supporting marriage and family.
Refutation - By private behavior, AFA is implying sexual behavior. ENDA says nothing about sexual behavior. If "national policy supporting marriage and family" is changed, then it is a good thing. Not all families are heterosexually-oriented. Also, several states already offer lgbts the right to marry. A national policy regarding families and marriage should embrace this change rather than adhere to someone's narrow view of family and marriage.
AFA - HRC claims that ENDA does not apply to religious organizations, but the 2007 version of the law only provided a religious exemption for religious positions that were involved in actual teaching or proclamation of doctrine. Such a limited exemption, some pro-family legal experts argue, would mean that a Christian school that was hiring a secretary, janitor or football coach would not be allowed to reject a homosexual who applied for the slot.
Refutation - That's simply not true. This version of ENDA has a more detailed explanation of religious exemptions (Section 6).
This was the same detailed exemptions included in the 2007 version of ENDA. An article in the Roundtable of Religion and Social Welfare Policy described the exemptions as followed:
"ENDA has three subsections with specific exemptions for religious organizations. The first says the law will not apply to a religious organization or educational institution that has a "primary purpose" to teach religion or spread doctrine. This would include houses of worship, parochial schools, and religious missions.
Institutions that would not be wholly exempted by this first subsection include schools, universities, hospitals and social service agencies operated by religious organizations but that do not have a primary purpose of teaching religion.
The second subsection excludes employees whose "primary" duty is to spread religious doctrine and involves spiritual teaching or ministerial governance. This would include chaplains and teachers of nonreligious subjects, even if they work at institutions that are not exempted such as hospitals, social service agencies or universities.
With respect to other employees, the third subsection says the religious institutions that are not exempt may still require workers to conform to the institution's religious beliefs about sexual orientation. For example, the bill would allow a religiously-affiliated hospital to refuse to hire or to fire doctors and nurses who engage in same-sex conduct."
Even with these talking points, the battle to pass ENDA is still half done. As we have seen with the health care town hall meetings last month, it's not just about having the correct information, it's about the ability to be able to get your information out there and define the argument.
And the religious right with their allies on the blogs and Fox News won't make this easy.
If the lgbt community and our allies are to get ENDA passed, we have to not only know how to counter the lies but be able to weave our way through the intricasies of how these lies are spread.
And we need to start getting ready now.
The fight against ENDA starts with a soap, Paul Cameron rears his nasty head, and other Monday midday news briefs
Catholic church steps up anti-gay marriage effort - Well we all know what the Maggie Gallagher visit was all about. Isn't this sort of thing illegal?
The implications of a 'Harvey Milk Day' observance - The religious right don't like the idea of a "Harvey Milk Day" observance. Who knew? Note to SaveCalifornia.com president Randy Thomasson - we already have crossdressing exercises in schools. They are called "powder puff football games" and "spirit week opposite days."
Obama: AIDS ED Doesn't Work -- Kill it & Save Billions - I'm all for "if you don't succeed, try try again," but give it up, Paul Cameron. Who in the hell takes you seriously? Or would even admit to taking your seriously?
A Candid Debate On Black Manhood, Homosexuality and Civil Rights
A Candid Debate On Black Manhood, Same Gender Love & Civil Rights: Fact & Fiction from Cleo Manago on Vimeo.
Social architect/activist Cleo Manago participated in a candid debate on homosexuality in Black communities, civil rights and attitudes behind Black resistance to affirming homosexuals at Al Sharpton’s National Action Network’s 2009 Summer Conference held in Atlanta, GA. Manago was joined by author/activist Kevin Alexander Gray, and National Action Network’s Director of Health & Wellness, Tony Wafford.
According to Manago, “often when I have these discussions in the Black community, someone gets up talking about production, to produce or to not produce being the measure of who deserves the most rights or who deserves the most respect, which is not logical because most sex people have, including heterosexual sex, is not to reproduce.”
Manago further went on to discuss that while HIV is killing us [the Black community] it’s difficult getting heterosexual men involved in part based on myths, judgments and under-discussed issues around manhood in the Black community.
Monday, September 07, 2009
President Obama's speech vs. 'The Burning Hell' - a lesson in proper encouragement
Oh yeah, real evil stuff there with all that talk about reaching for the stars, never giving up even if you fail, and always keeping your focus on your goals.
Expect the anti-Obama spin to remain on the optional lesson plans (which I don't see the problem with suggesting that students write out ways to help THEIR president improve education) or the lie about how "Obama was forced to revise his speech."
I would have loved to hear such words of encouragement coming from the President or anyone. And I was lucky to get those words of encouragement from my mother, teachers, and friends.
Those words were a better experience of encouragement than the one I had when I was four-years-old.
At the time, I lived in Pennsylvania. My brother and I was invited with a group of inner city youth by a predominantly white church group to have lunch at a theatre and see movies.
The first movie was some oldie about the Harlem Globetrotters with Dorothy Dandridge.
The second movie was a lovely gem of the macabre (shown here in preview form) called The Burning Hell:
I have since seen this documentary at two other stages in my life.
As a 38-year-old looking at it on youtube, it amazes me how people thought that showing children this movie could do anything positive for their well-being.
As a nine-year-old seeing it at another church's revival meeting, I wondered what in the world was all the fuss about.
However, as a four-year-old (at the time I first saw the movie), it scared the hell out of me. Ugly memory that was. And totally exacerbated by the fact that many of us children were too scared to leave. I wonder what those lovely Christian people would have done if we tried.
And by the way, we did get lunch. A nasty peanut butter sandwich, an orange, and a carton of warm milk that they gave us when we boarded the bus for home. And that was after the prayer of "accepting Jesus and hoping that if we died that day, we didn't end up in hell."
Wasn't that lovely? It gave me something to think about between such childhood functions as reading comic books and watching Schoolhouse Rock.
The entire experience served me well, though. It put a kernel of doubt in my head about man's interpretation of God's word. This kernel blossomed and ended up being a saving grace when I had to deal with my gay sexual orientation.
Now I ask you all in light of how I was a victim of "proper encouragement" by members of the Christian community, is President Obama's speech to children really a bad thing?
Editor's note - By the way, you can see the entire "The Burning Hell" video here on youtube.
UPDATE - This is funny. At the conservative blog, Hot Air (how aptly named), they are of course either panning the speech or trying to push the "it's not the speech but the instructional materials" lie. But every now and then comes a moment of truth. One person said the following:
I can’t help wondering if the fact that he’s black and you’re all white doesn’t have a teeny-tiny bit to do with that deep deep reservoir of resentment.
(name withheld) on September 7, 2009 at 3:10 PM
The response:
How the hell do you know we’re all white, a$$wipe?
Screw you and the bloody donkey you rode in on, you scum sucking bastard.
(name withheld) on September 7, 2009 at 6:17 PM
To the conservatives complaining over the President's speech - if some of you feel like dummies because of your response to the speech, then guess what?
To the rest of the American people, you look even worse.
Sunday, September 06, 2009
Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters celebrates three years of refuting the religious right
There are a bunch of organizations in this country who thrive on ignorance, fear, and a sense of entitlement.
They refer to themselves as "pro family" and even members of the gay community regard them as the religious right
With all due respect, I don't see them as that. They are an anti-gay industry who seeks to gain political power by building on the religious beliefs and ignorance of people of faith. And they have been pretty successful.
Central to this success are their so-called studies on the gay community. In order to prove that gays and lesbians should not have any protection of laws, they have created a written and oral pattern of deception that is not only blatant in its attempts but shameful in its audacity. In their zeal to prove the worst about the gay community, the anti-gay industry runs roughshod over science and truth. They have created a houses of pseudo-scientific studies based on distortions, lies, headless monsters, and legitimate studies taken out of context , which are then pushed by fake experts, Ph.D.s, conservative columnists and bloggers, and ignorant people of faith all willing to sacrifice their integrity on the altar of an alleged higher calling.
We know the claims these studies make:
gays have a short life span
gays molest children at a higher level than heterosexuals
lesbians abuse their partners at a high level
gays are more violent and are prone to crimes
gays are promiscuous and cannot handle the concept of marriage.
For two years, I have studied the methodologies of so-called "pro family" groups (i.e. Focus on the Family, Concerned Women for America, the Traditional Values Coalition, etc) and am glad to say that their claims are rooted in lies, outright deceptions, and legitimate studies with portions cherry picked out.
In 2007, I will publish my book, Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters, detailing just what how the anti-gay industry propagandizes about the gay community. Through this blog, I will publish some of my findings and update everyone as to the progress of my book. I will update this blog on a weekly basis.
Now I must emphasis that I am not attacking anyone's religion. I respect a Christian's right to believe that homosexuality is an abomination. I also respect the right of the Boys Scouts of America to prohibit gays from serving as members. Of course I also believe that if the organization had any integrity at all, it should refuse any form of public monies because some of this money is derived from gay sources via taxes. And isn't accepting money from those who you feel will not conform to your moral code just as bad as allowing them in your group.
But I digress.
What I am saying through my book and my blog is that distortions and lies in the name of God are still distortions and lies. And anyone who knowingly uses them and can still refer to themselves as a person of faith needs to examine themselves.
If anyone wants to read past postings, check out the Best of Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters to the right of this blog.
Saturday, September 05, 2009
From 'bathroom bills' to 'lesson plans' - the right exploits children again
Finally the wolf says, "You claim to be innocent, but I know you are lying so to hell with it." And then proceeded to devour the lamb, proving that when people want to do evil, they will use any excuse to justify their behavior.
In the case of President's Obama's speech to children on Sept. 8, it seems that the excuse is to "protect the children."
This recent controversy over President Obama's speech is nonsense. We all know it and we should say it loudly and often.
And not only that, it demonstrates just how some on the right, especially the religious right, operate.
Those who are making all of this noise about the President's speech claim that they have no arguments with it per se but with the "lesson plans" that accompany it, especially the part about advising children to write on how they can help the President.
The whine about the lesson plan is a big con. And it's an old one.
We all have seen this "I don't mind the big idea but the little details scare me" con before.
Remember when certain areas of the country (i.e. counties in Maine, Florida, etc.) were trying to pass transgender-inclusive gay rights bills?
The people opposing the bills claimed that they didn't have a problem with the "spirit of the bills," but that they left a huge opening for "sexual predators" to invade women's bathrooms and locker rooms.
That, of course was an evasive tactic.
What someone on their side of the argument did was look through the bills until they found a loophole that they could exploit. And they did this because they were too cowardly to publicly say that they didn't want transgender-inclusive gay rights bills to pass because they don't like homosexuality.
To say this would have left them open for the charge of bigotry.
But saying that they didn't support transgender-inclusive gay rights bills (or as they termed them - "bathroom bills,") because they would cause harm to children was a more advantageous tallking point.
So now in the case of President Obama's speech to children, we are seeing a foul case of deja vu.
These folks (Michelle Malkin, the conservative radio show hosts and bloggers, the religious right, elected officials in Florida) who started the nonsense about Obama's speech to children don't like the President, period. No matter what he does or says, he will remain on the very top of their crap list and they are going to do their best to undermine his efforts at all turns.
If he were Moses and parted the Red Sea for them to cross, they would be complaining about how the soles of their feet got wet.
But they don't want to openly say "we don't want the President to give this speech because we just don't like Obama."
Therefore we are saddled with this "I'm scared that President Obama will be indoctrinating children because the 'lesson plans' of his speech give me pause" talking point that will be repeated continuously without a good challenge by the liars on Fox News and other television programs with anchors too cowardly to challenge it for fear of looking "liberally biased."
Just like the case of the alleged "bathroom bills," someone looked through the plans of the President speech and found a loophole in which they can hang their lies on.
Evasive loopholes will continue to exist until someone has the courage to plug them up.
But unfortunately very few want to do this.
Friday, September 04, 2009
More LaBarbera lies and Know your lgbt history - Windows
At the National HIV Conference this week, the Centers for Disease Control said the following:
Gay and bisexual men account for half of new HIV infections in the U.S. and have AIDS at a rate more than 50 times greater than other groups. . .
. . . Gay and bisexual men account for half of new HIV infections in the U.S. and have AIDS at a rate more than 50 times greater than other groups, according to Centers for Disease Control & Prevention data presented at the National HIV Prevention Conference this week in Atlanta.
This is bad news to almost everyone except for our friend Peter LaBarbera, who naturally used this news for his own benefit:
The issue in this ongoing “culture war” is not the cause of homosexual “orientation” — or merely the legality of “same-sex marriage.” It’s homosexual behavior itself — and whether government should promote it or discourage it, or be neutral. I say discourage it, since the evidence keeps pouring in that conduct which has been proscribed as immoral down through centuries of Judeo-Christian tradition is also highly dangerous. Now if the CDC will only stop blabbering on about “homophobia” and start telling the truth — that the rectum is not a sexual organ, after all, and that we must take tough measures against “gay” promiscuity — America will become a healthier place.
Never mind that he shows his ignorance by taking in part of the CDC's statement and ignoring the part that doesn't suit his agenda.
The "blabbering about homophobia" that LaBarbera alludes to is this part of the article that he conveniently omitted in his attack on lgbts:
Many conference speakers, including ranking officials with the CDC, said getting rid of stigma, including homophobia, against those with HIV/AIDS is also a crucial part in reducing incident rates.
LaBarbera also omitted this part of the article:
( U.S. Department of Health & Human Services Secretary Kathleen) Sebelius also noted that gay and bisexual men, as well as African Americans and Latinos, continue to be hardest hit by the disease in the U.S. Steps are being taken by the Obama administration to target these populations specifically, she said.
“We’re targeting our efforts at high-risk groups like African Americans. Today, African Amer-icans make up just a tenth of the population. But they account for nearly half of new HIV infections. One in 30 African-American women will be diagnosed in her lifetime. One in 16 African-American men will be diagnosed with HIV. In 2005, the CDC reported that in five major cities, almost half of all African-American gay men were HIV positive. The situation is also dire for Latinos,” she said.
“Think about that. Imagine if it were half the straight white women in Atlanta. Wouldn’t we be calling this a national emergency? Shouldn’t we be?” she said to a cheering crowd.
I know LaBarbera wouldn't dare denigrate the Latino and African-American community for their unfortunate rate of HIV infections in the same manner that he denigrates the lgbt community. Not to worry, though. I'm sure enterprising racists will talk about the supposed "inferiority" of blacks and Latinos.
After all, you just can't keep hogs away from the trough, whether they be racists or homophobes.
Sorry about that for those expecting a Know your lgbt history segment. Now onto it . . .
Know your lgbt history - Windows
It has been said that Windows (1980) is such a bad movie that it will never make it to DVD. Hell, it's hard to find it on VHS.
And those who say these things are absolutely correct. I never thought it was possible to see a movie that simultaneously disgusted and bored me.
The repulsiveness starts off before you even have time to get acquainted with the characters.
Talia Shire plays a woman who is attacked when she is entering her apartment. The intruder makes her partly disrobe and, while holding a knife to her neck and mouth, makes her say "sounds" in a tape recorder.
The scene is disgusting. Why the intruder does this to her is even worse. He was paid by Shire's friend, played by Elizabeth Ashley, to make Shire do these things. She paid the man to commit the crime so that Shire would run to her for support. When this doesn't work, Ashley just listens to the tape of Shire's violation to the point where she can repeat the entire sequence by memory (and you just know that she will).
As you can guess, Ashley is secretly in love with Shire. When Shire moves to another apartment, Ashley commences to spy on her from telescope in a loft across the way.
As Shire slowly begins a romance with a detective investigating the case, Ashley begins to go insane, using a knife to "express herself" on Shire's cat, neighbor, and the psychiatrist who is starting to recognize her insane behavior.
First of all, what's with off-kilter women in movies? Why can't they just use a gun? Do they always have to attack people with knives. And not just any knife, but one of the long, slender knives that you just know was not made to cut meat.
Anyway, Windows was highly controversial. That and the fact that it was just a hideously made movie sunk its chances at the box office.
There is so much to dislike about this movie. For one thing, it just didn't make any sense. Ashley's character was rich, vivacious, and even has a sexy breezy way of talking.
Shire's character was meek, mousy, plain, and jumped at her own shadows. To make matters worse, Shire resurrected a bunch of those ugly berets she wore in Rocky.
Shouldn't it have been the other way around with Shire chasing after Ashley?
Secondly, the plotlines are dumb. The intruder who forces Shire to make all of those ugly sounds is caught because he is a cab driver and Shire just happens to be his fare later in the movie and recognizes his voice.
Thirdly, and maybe this isn't a bad thing, for a violent movie about a crazed lesbian who likes to get knife happy, we see almost no violence.
We know that Ashley is attacking people with her trusty knife because of reaction shots (although I saw the movie on youtube and maybe the poster excised the violent scenes).
At the very least, you would think to expect a knockdown, drag out fight between Shire and Ashley. It doesn't happen. All Ashley does is verbally repeat the sounds of Shire's violation until the police come. Meanwhile Shire just looks at her and wonders no doubt how in the hell did she get saddled in such a nasty movie.
The following are clips from Windows:
Now if you want to see the entire movie, you can go to the youtube file here.
But trust me when I say don't do it.
Past Know Your LGBT History postings:
Know your lgbt history - To Wong Foo and Priscilla
Know your lgbt history - Blazing SaddlesKnow your lgbt history - Sanford and Son
Know your lgbt history - In Living Color
Know your lgbt history - Cleopatra Jones and her lesbian drug lords
Know your lgbt history - Norman, Is That You?
Know your lgbt history - The 'Exotic' Adrian Street
Know your lgbt history - The Choirboys
Know your lgbt history - Eddie Murphy
Know your lgbt history - The Killing of Sister George
Know your lgbt history - Hanna-Barbera cartoons pushes the 'gay agenda'
Know your lgbt history - Cruising
Know your lgbt history - Foxy Brown and Cleopatra Jones
Know your lgbt history - I Got Da Hook Up
Know your lgbt history - Fright Night
Know your lgbt history - Flowers of Evil
The Jeffersons and the transgender community
Maine anti-gays push old lie, Obama an 'uppity Negro,' and other Friday midday news briefs
Maine’s Anti-Gay Marriage Campaign Leader is Completely Insane - Well I knew that but it's always good to confirm. There they go again with the "marriage equality will force children to learn about gay sex" lie.
Obama Schoolchildren Speech Drives Right-Wingers Batty - Who does that "uppity Negro" Barack Obama think he is? The President of the United States?
Man accidentally shot dead by S.A. policeman was drag performer - This story is %$!@ up! That was my first impression of the situation.
Focus on the Family Promotes Misinformation about HIV/AIDS - Focus on the Family lying about HIV/AIDS? It must be a regular day.
Porno Petey strikes again

The Labor Day weekend holiday is upon us and wouldn't you know it? Peter LaBarbera does something nutsy.
The WWE has Wrestlemania.
The NFL has the Superbowl.
And Peter LaBarbera has Folsom Street Fair.
You can set your watch by it. Every time the San Francisco street fair rolls around, LaBarbera provides his version of publicity for the event by "condemning it." Then he goes to event, making sure to take pictures of alleged gross acts and providing "loving commentary" even sometimes informing us on the exact length of time those "freakie deakies" in said picture took to do the deed.
This year, LaBarbera takes the following quote from conservative radio so-and-so Michael Savage to make a ridiculous point:
“San Francisco is a microcosm of the illness called liberalism. It’s the least tolerant city in the country. It’s the meanest city in the country.”
I don't know about that. A city which hosts an alleged butt-naked festival doesn't necessarily strike me as intolerant.
But Michael Savage is the same person who lost his television show on MSNBC after telling a caller that he should catch AIDS and die.
So I guess if anyone knows about intolerance, it's him.
The Folsom Street Fair isn't exactly my cup of tea but apparently a lot of people (gay and straight - funny how LaBarbera always tries to omit the "heterosexual perversions" at Folsom) seem to enjoy it.
And in all honesty, LaBarbera seems to enjoy it too.
One of these days, somebody is going to take a picture of him attending these fairs. I wonder what he wears while in attendance, that is if he is dressed at all.
Editor's note - Never mind about that last sentence. Just writing it made me ill.
Related posts:
Peter LaBarbera - the self-destruction of an anti-gay activist