Editor's note - In celebration of Black History Month, from time to time I will be reposting columns I have posted on my thoughts about being black and gay:
From October 6, 2014
As a gay African-American, I've heard the argument about how "you
can't compare the gay civil rights movement to the African-American
civil rights movement" more times than I care to count.
The constant so-called moral outrage of some African-American
heterosexuals when the topic is mentioned has gotten me to the point
where my mind automatically tunes out the monotonous drones of how
supposed sinful homosexuals are "high jacking" the civil rights movement
or how gays "can't compare their sin with black skin."
As such, I almost missed the epiphany which occurred two weeks ago.
I was vaguely scanning comments on a conservative site by an
anonymous African-American female as she went on and on about how gays
were never subjected to slavery, segregation or declared three fifths a
person. While the logical side of my mind was gathering up the
customary argument of how wrong it was for disadvantaged people of any
stripe to play the "Oppression Olympics," the emotional side of my mind
struck immediately.
"This is the most ignorant crap I've ever heard," I thought. "Just
where in the hell does she think gay black people were during slavery
and segregation? On a spaceship orbiting the Earth? "
I was instantly struck by oddity of what I had thought. Not that my
outrage wasn't coming from a place of truth, mind you, but how the
simple fact never entered my mind that yes, gay people were subjected
to slavery, segregation and racism because of our skin. Just as LGBT
(lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) people of color exist now, we
existed back then. Then it suddenly struck me again that I've never
recalled any acknowledgement of this fact during the myriad of
discussions, I've read, listened to or seen regarding comparisons
between the gay and civil rights movements.
And why is that?
There have been numerous debates, articles, columns, movies and
documentaries about how the legacy of racism has had a negative effect
on so many aspects of African-American community, from our families to
the way we interact with each other. It stands to reason that the
legacy of racism didn't leave LGBT people of color unscathed. But
information about what LGBT people of color did during those awful times
in our history or what effect it has had on us is practically
nonexistent.
It is a subject hardly ever mentioned. No one talks about it in the
black community and that includes leaders, intellectuals, journalists,
authors or any other person with some type of platform.
And this leaves me feeling as if the events of black history, which
are supposed to be a part of my heritage, are nothing more than
hand-me-downs donated to me out of charity because there are very few,
if any, events which are specific to me as an LGBT person of color.