Thursday, September 16, 2010

Shouldn't being a 'Values Voter' involve having decent values?



This weekend, various religious right groups and conservatives are holding which is yet another one of those dreary "God hath designated us to save America" conferences designed to make everyone think that Jesus actually condensed the Sermon on The Mount to two words: Vote Republican.

This year's conference will be interesting thanks to the words of one of the guest speakers:

gay sex is a form of domestic terrorism.

. . .our public policy toward homosexual conduct should be the same as our public policy toward intravenous drug abuse.

A homosexual judge cannot help but give the home-field advantage to every legal team appearing before him who represents homosexual causes. It will be impossible for the visiting team, the team representing sexual normalcy and natural marriage, to get a fair shake in his courtroom.

Bryan Fischer is the American Family Association’s Director of Issue Analysis. He also has a radio program where he spouts nonsense like this as well as other more outrageous comments which can be heard if  you click on the above video.

He will also be sharing the spotlight at the Values Voters Summit with GOP leaders such as Mitt Romney, Mike Huckabee, Mike Pence, Bob McDonnell, Michele Bachmann, and newly crowned tea party star Christine O'Donnell.

And I am sure that these leaders will tell you how much they do not agree with Fischer's statements if asked. But so far they haven't been asked. And that's a problem.

Granted, some GOP leaders aren't exactly slouches themselves when it comes to things like homophobia.

When Huckabee isn't assuring folks like Anne Coulter, that he isn't "pro-sodomy," he insults same-sex households by comparing them to people raising puppies.

O'Donnell has a history of all sorts of ugly comments and stances from being involved in an "ex-gay" ministry,  to claiming that AIDS prevention gets too much money.

And then there is that incident of Michele Bachmann watching a gay pride parade while hiding behind a bush during her days as a state legislator.

So Fischer can be considered as the over ripe cherry on the top of a rotten sundae.

But for those who really care about morality, this association with Fischer shouldn't be anything to be proud of. It's another item on the grocery list of right-wing hypocrisy stored at the "do as I say, not as I do" aisle.

Some on the right like to claim that the word "racist" has been overused too much as sort of a "mark of Cain" given to someone for "merely expressing a politically incorrect opinion."

I tend to think that the words "values" and "morality' have been equally overused. Or rather it seems that some groups have figuratively copyrighted the words with the ferocity of a record company trying to co-opt the plans of a departing singing group.

Just because you use the words "values" and "morality" in your talking points don't mean that you have them. Peppering these two words in your statements while you speak in clipped tones to the press doesn't necesssarily compare to Jesus healing the sick or raising the dead.

Personally I tend to think that "values" and "morals" entail more than a group of well-paid, well-heeled, high-moneyed individuals assembling themselves in luxurious conference rooms whining about how much they are being victimized simply because gays and lesbians are able to marry or provide a home for a child.

I also think that having "values" and "morality" don't involve turning a blind eye and sharing a stage with a man who seems to think that blatant homophobia is a Christian virtue.

Who knows. Maybe these folks have a different version of the Bible than most of us.



Hat tip to People for the American Way.



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Newly crowned Senate candidate to share stage with homophobe and other Thursday midday news briefs

O'Donnell To Speak At Values Voter Summit, Will She Denounce Fischer's Bigotry? - She'll get a standing ovation but somehow I don't think it will appeal to the voters in Delaware.

White House Stands by Veto Threat - Don't do it, President Obama.

Groups Cheer Tim Kennedy Win Over Anti-Gay Marriage Bill Stachowski - Another victory overshadowed by teabagging mess. Oh well.

My Ex-Gay Life With the Tea Party Queen - Not trying to Christine O'Donnell you to death but this is an excellent article about a gay man who used to be involved in her ex-gay ministry with a little Peter LaBarbera mixed in for some spice.


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Cruel irony - Asst attorney general cyber bullies gay college student



How is this Ann Arbor story for an ugly irony:

In classroom’s across the state, Attorney General Mike Cox uses videos to teach students the dangers of internet predators and cyber bullies.

. . . But is one of his top lieutenants engaging in cyber bullying, the very behavior Cox says is so dangerous. Andrew Shirvell is an assistant attorney general who helped run Cox’s last re-election campaign. But on his own time, he’s the author of a blog he started last spring targeting Chris Armstrong, the openly gay president of the University of Michigan’s student assembly.

Apparently in this blog, Shirvell has accused this young man of several things including the customary "pusher of the gay agenda" to the outrageous "being Satan's representative on the Student Assembly."



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Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Lifesite News and Tony Perkins team up to bash gay marriage with bad research

A very aggravating thing about religious right groups is how they will continue to distort studies about the lgbt community.

Case in point - the Family Research Council and the conservative online news site Life Site News

Last week, I blogged about how the Family Research Council was distorting a Netherlands study in a piece on its webpage to claim that gay marriages have more promiscuity than heterosexual marriages.

In spite of the fact that the Netherlands study looked at casual relationships involving gay men and none of the men in the study were married, the Family Research Council not only used the study to bash gay marriage but also same-sex households with children.

The Netherlands study was again distorted last week, but this time by Family Research Council head Tony Perkins in an  address at the Faith and Freedom Conference:

Data show that the great majority of married homosexuals have multiple sexual partners. One recent study of homosexual couples found that each member of such couples averages eight additional sexual partners per year.

And as if this distortion isn't bad enough, Perkins then says the following:

Other studies suggest that children raised in homosexual homes are much more likely to be exposed to violence than those raised by a mom and a dad.

Perkins doesn't go into detail about just what these studies are but LifeSite News, in an article about Perkins's speech, attempts to take up the slack by assuming just what studies Perkins is talking about:

For example, a 1994 study in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence examining conflict and violence in lesbian relationships found that 90% of the lesbians surveyed had been recipients of one or more acts of verbal aggression from their intimate partners during the year prior to the study, with 31% reporting one or more incidents of physical abuse. A 2001 survey in the Journal of the Family Research Institute found that gay men were 25 times more likely than married men to be domestically attacked.

But like Perkins, LifeSite News is highly inaccurate.

According to the Journal of Interpersonal Violence’s own web page:

The Journal of Interpersonal Violence offers the most up-to-date information on domestic violence, rape, child sexual abuse and other violent crimes . . . Focusing on both victims and perpetrators, the journal examines theoretical links between all types of interpersonal violence, exploring the similarities and differences between these types of crimes.

In other words, the Journal of Interpersonal Violence tracks domestic violence, as well as other violent crimes.

Those surveyed in journal articles are the victims of violence, verbal or otherwise, because this is what the journal is designed to track.

What Life Site News is doing here is the equivalent of taking a study of domestic violence in the African-American community published in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence and using it to allege that black relationships are indicative of violent behavior. 

And that second study? It's entitled Gay Domestic Violence Finally Measured and it was written by researcher Paul Cameron.  Cameron is the creator of numerous inaccurate studies about the lgbt community. He has been discredited continuously and extensively by such organizations as the American Psychological Association and the American Sociological Assocation.

But at least LifeSite News finds him credible. I guess that makes it all okay.



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Delaware GOP Senate nominee supports 'ex-gay' ministries and other Wednesday midday news briefs

Delaware GOP Senate Nominee A Staunch Supporter Of Ex-Gay Ministries - More proof that if Christine O'Donnell becomes a senator, lgbts are in for a world of trouble.

FRC's continued attempts to drag down Reid - My gosh, can the Family Research Council get any more tasteless?

A very good night for LGBT candidates - Something for under the radar but that's okay. Take it from me, you can get a LOT done while under the radar.

Focus on the Family: Legally Married Couples Do Not Count As "Families - And yet they whine about being called "bigots."

New study on LGBTQ students in school - I don't mean to end the news briefs on this sad note but it's an important issue.



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LGBT community should fear the thought of 'Senator' Christine O'Donnell

Christine O'Donnell's victory last night was a gamechanger on so many fronts.

For one the emphasis is off of the supposed Democrat electoral slaughter in November and is now on one of the backstories everyone was  ignoring - the crisis of leadership in the Republican Party.

And now O'Donnell, whose victory in the Republican Delaware Senate primary over establishment pick Mike Castle (thanks to out of state tea party money and Sarah Palin) has made her the new media star for a time.

Right now folks are laughing at O'Donnell because of her extreme right-wing and strange views, including starring in a video which criticized masturbation. People are saying that she had no chance to win the general election.

But as long as she is running and is not taken as a serious challenger, she can easily sneak up and win, especially when she is backed by the money and influence of the tea party.

And this doesn't bode well for the lgbt community. She used to be a spokesperson for anti-gay Concerned Women for America.

That's the organization which, amongst other things, blames the lgbt community because young black men aren't graduating, stands against the repeal of DADT,  and who at times cites the discredited work of Paul Cameron.

This is the type of person who can be a United States Senator and it should scare the lgbt community.

It's one thing to have Family Research Council head Tony Perkins called as "expert witnesses" in front of Congress.

But having someone like O'Donnell in Congress is like having a rabid fox trapped in a henhouse.

So the lgbt community and the Democratic Party in general should be careful. Don't laugh O'Donnell into Congress.


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Tuesday, September 14, 2010

SC Republicans stoop racially LOW

I was going to write a piece on the consistent distortion of the word "values," but the following caught my eye from Fits News:



The National Federation of Republican Women (NFRW) held its annual fall Board of Directors meeting in Charleston, S.C. last weekend – a decision the organization is likely regretting after several controversial pictures from one of the meeting’s sponsored events began surfacing on the internet.

One of the pictures shows S.C. Senate President Glenn McConnell - who FITS readers will recall enjoys dressing up as a Confederate General – posing in his Rebel garb with a pair of African-Americans dressed in, um, “antebellum” attire.

The event in question – dubbed “The Southern Experience” – was held last Friday evening at the Country Club of Charleston. Hosted by the South Carolina Federation of Republican Women, it was included on the national conference’s official itinerary.

In addition to McConnell, S.C. Gov. Mark Sanford attended (and spoke at) the event – although it was not listed on his weekly public schedule. S.C. Republican Attorney General nominee Alan Wilson also attended.

Invited speakers to the NFRW conference included U.S. House Majority Leader John Boehner, Senate Leader Mitch McConnell, RNC Chairman Michael Steele, Rep. Joe Wilson, House Speaker Bobby Harrell, former U.S. Ambassador David Wilkins and GOP gubernatorial nominee Nikki Haley.

Fits News has more pictures posted on its site.

Okay accuse me of political correctness all you want, but I'd like to hear who exactly these two black folks were "portraying" during that experience. How about a "real experience" and tying the brother to a tree and whipping his back or . . . modesty precludes me from saying what should be done to the "sista'" but you get the picture.

I don't think its necessarily a good thing to celebrate some mess like this. But in a state where the Confederate flag hangs at the State House and where there also resides a statue devoted to an "unashamed" racist (Ben "Pitchfork" Tillman) who proudly bragged about using violence to keep African-Americans disenfranchised, what else can you expect? 

"Southern experience" my ass!



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Bullying leads to child's suicide and other Tuesday midday news briefs

Friends: Bullies Led To 15-Year-Old's Death - Sad situation which needs to be remedied despite what your beliefs about homosexuality may be.

John Amaechi alleges racism at gay bar - I don't know what the particulars are in this case, but racism in the lgbt community as well as socioeconomic factors and access to resources and circles of power are things which must be addressed. It's no good talking about equality if it means equality for some based on superficial characteristics.

Witness in New DADT Trial: No Stigma Against Gays in His Unit - Yet ANOTHER reason why DADT must be repealed.

James Meeks, Potential Mayoral Candidate, Draws Ire of Gay Rights Supporters - Well thanks a lot Mr. Meeks. I hope we bore you sufficiently.



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Senate to hit on DADT repeal next week. Time for the fight

ABC News is reporting the following:

Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid plans to bring to the Senate floor next week the 2011 defense authorization bill that includes a repeal of the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy, aides said today.

Reid informed Senate Minority Leader Mitch McConnell of his decision during a meeting this afternoon.

Earlier this year Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., objected to bringing up the bill because of the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell repeal and a provision permitting abortions to take place at military hospitals provided federal funds are not used.

The House voted earlier this year to repeal the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy.

Reid’s decision to bring up the defense bill means that it will likely be the one major piece of legislation that the Senate tackles before the November mid-term elections. Later this week Reid and Democrats hope to finish work on a small business bill that has been stalled since earlier this summer.

Everyone seems to be twiddling their thumbs here and such but I would suggest that you call your Senators and give them an earful to repeal this ban. The pressure is not just on Obama or the Democrats but on us also. I hear a lot of folks ready to give Obama hell, and it is deserved to a point. But what isn't needed is the mouths of those willing to spin a cute phrase when they get disappointed but not willing to put in the work which needs to be done.

This is our victory to be won through hard work. It won't be given to us on a silver platter.

From the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network:

Call and urge your senators to make passage of repeal legislation a top priority the week of September 20th. And ask them to urge their Joint Leadership (Senators Reid and McConnell) to schedule this vote.

(202) 224-3121

A full Senate floor vote is one of the last major legislative hurdles that stands in the way of repeal. Unfortunately, Senator John McCain has been a vocal opponent of repeal from the start. He has indicated that he, along with other repeal foes, will pull out all the stops in coming weeks - from attempting to strike repeal language from the NDAA to offering weakening amendments or threatening to filibuster the entire defense budget.

We cannot let that happen.

If the defense budget bill doesn't move to the Senate floor by the end of this month, DADT repeal may not happen for several more years.

Call these key senators now. We need a repeal vote the week of September 20th.

Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid (D-NV)
(202) 224-3542

Senate Minority Leader Mitch McConnell (R-KY)
(202) 224-2541

Senator John McCain (R-AZ)
(202) 224-2235


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Monday, September 13, 2010

Zimbabwean father attacks, disowns gay son

To some of us, Zimbabwe may seem a world away, but this situation is a sign of the fact that the lgbt struggle for equality and dignity is a worldwide thing:

A BULAWAYO man has disowned his son and thrown him out of the family home in Tshabalala Extension after the 20 year-old confessed to being gay.

Irvine Mahachi told the Bulawayo-based Sunday News he was still struggling to come to terms with his son, Irvine Junior’s sexuality, which he described as “shameful and taboo”.

“I did not raise my son to be gay. I raised him to be a man. I expected him to chase after skirts like other boys but he never did that.

. . . the announcement stunned the family and his angry father said his wife had fainted when their son told them the shocking news.

“The manner in which he asked for an audience with me and my wife made me realise that something was wrong. He was nervous and not his usual self.

“I was so angry and shocked that I hit him with my fists, something that I have never done in my life. My wife suffers from high blood pressure and the shocking news almost killed her. Even today she is not herself,” Mahachi said.

He said Irvine was no longer welcome in the family home.

“As far as I am concerned I do not have a son anymore. The only child I have left is my lovely daughter. What Irvine has done is taboo and shameful. It’s unheard of in our African culture,” Mahachi is reported as saying.


More here

 This is an ugly story but it's something to remember. No matter how many laws we pass in this country, no matter how we rage against "Gay Inc," or President Obama, or the religious right, or whoever else, the struggle for lgbt equality is worldwide. And while we fight for what we want in the United States, let's never forget those lgbts in other counties who are in a worse state than us.

Let our minds, hearts, and prayers be with them.



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NH Senate candidate opposes gay adoption and other Monday midday news briefs



This is a video which should get us all angry. Yet another potential legislator (Republican NH candidate for Senate Kelly Ayotte) using silly talking points rather than addressing a problem. All families which provide love and support to children should be uplifted. We have no business creating caste systems for families in this country.

Hat tip to Pam's House Blend

In other news:

Iowa For Freedom: Liars. - Whatever to the good old days when folks told lies that weren't so damned blatant that they were pitiful?

Tenn. Lesbian Couple’s Home Torched - THIS is what terrorism looks like.

Florida Governor Charlie Crist prepared to endorse broad swath of gay rights - Say what you will about this electoral season, it's yielding some wild incidents.

NOM: Desperate in DC - Any Monday in which the National Organization for Marriage looks like idiots isn't a total bad day.

50 Cent under fire over `gay wedding bloodbath` tweets - Great. Just what the world is waiting for. A "beef" between 50 Cent and Perez Hilton.


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Homophobic pastor's son speaks in Charleston



Nate Phelps, the son of the homophobic Westboro pastor Fred Phelps came to Charleston, SC last week as a part of a program held by Alliance For Full Acceptance, an education and advocacy group for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community.

From what I hear, it was a pretty awesome speech. But for those who missed it (myself included), this interview with the Charleston media will have to suffice.



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Friday, September 10, 2010

Know Your LGBT History - The Proud Family

The Proud Family is a popular Disney animated series about the adventures of an African-American family and most specifically the daughter in the family, Penny Proud.

It is also a show that actually dealt with the bullying of an lgbt youngster without actually mentioning the word "gay."

In the episode Who You Callin' A Sissy, one of Penny's friends, Michael gets called a "sissy" after he defeats another young man on the basketball court. While everyone is shocked, Michael laughs it off.

However, soon the other children either start to tease or avoid Michael. And yet he still laughs it off.

Then the episode gets weird. Apparently a mysterious unseen monster begins attacking and humiliating Michael's supposed friends, the ones who began turning their back on him.

The entire thing culiminates at the school dance where Penny has to confront the "monster," who turns out to be (spoiler alert) Michael's personified anger (pertinent part of the clip starts at 6:04):



I don't know. I thought it was a good treatment of the situation. There seemed to have been a tiptoeing around the issue of the bullying of lgbt youth, but in the end, the message of the cartoon redeems all - no one should be bullied for being who they are.

Past Know Your LGBT History Posts:

Know Your LGBT History - Suddenly Last Summer

Know Your LGBT History - Gay TV Now

Know Your LGBT History - Stewardess School

Know Your LGBT History - Up the Academy

Know Your LGBT History - Don't be a Menace to South Central While Drinking Your Juice in the Hood

Know Your LGBT History - A Different Story

Know Your LGBT History - Victim

Know Your LGBT History - The Color Purple

Know Your LGBT History - Making Love

Know Your LGBT History - A Nightmare on Elm Street Part 2: Freddy's Revenge

Know Your LGBT History - Noah's Arc

Know Your LGBT History - Ode to Billy Joe

Know Your LGBT History - Adorable Adrian Adonis

Know Your LGBT History - The Night Strangler

Know Your LGBT History - All in the Family

Know Your LGBT History - Tongues Untied

Know Your LGBT History - The Celluloid Closet

Know Your LGBT History - Querelle

Know Your LGBT History - Theatre of Blood

Know Your LGBT History - Strange Fruit

Know Your LGBT History - Designing Women

Know Your LGBT History - The Children's Hour

Know Your LGBT History - Sylvester

Know Your LGBT History - Once Bitten

Know Your LGBT History - The Boys in the Band

Know Your LGBT History - Christopher Morley, the crossdressing assassin

Know Your LGBT History - Midnight Cowboy

Know Your LGBT History - Dracula's Daughter

Know Your LGBT History - Blacula

Know Your LGBT History - 3 Strikes

Know Your LGBT History - Paris Is Burning

Know Your LGBT History - The Women

Know your LGBT History - Soul Plane

Know Your LGBT History - The Player's Club

Special Know Your LGBT History - Fame

Know Your LGBT History - Welcome Home, Bobby

Know Your LGBT History - Barney Miller

Know your lgbt history - The Jerry Springer Show

Know your lgbt history - Martin Lawrence and that 'gay guy' on his show

Know your lgbt history - The Ricki Lake Show

Know your lgbt history - Which Way Is Up

Know your lgbt history - Gays in Primetime Soaps

Know your lgbt history - Boys Beware

Know your lgbt history - The Boondocks

Know your lgbt history - Mannequin

Know your lgbt history - The Warriors

Know Your LGBT History - New York Undercover

Know Your LGBT History - Low Down Dirty Shame

Know Your LGBT History - Fortune and Men's Eyes

Know your lgbt history - California Suite

Know your lgbt history - Taxi (Elaine's Strange Triangle)

Know your lgbt history - Come Back Charleston Blue

Know your lgbt history - James Bond goes gay

Know your lgbt history - Windows

Know your lgbt history - To Wong Foo and Priscilla

Know your lgbt history - Blazing Saddles

Know your lgbt history - Sanford and Son

Know your lgbt history - In Living Color

Know your lgbt history - Cleopatra Jones and her lesbian drug lords

Know your lgbt history - Norman, Is That You?

Know your lgbt history - The 'Exotic' Adrian Street

Know your lgbt history - The Choirboys

Know your lgbt history - Eddie Murphy

Know your lgbt history - The Killing of Sister George

Know your lgbt history - Hanna-Barbera cartoons pushes the 'gay agenda

'Know your lgbt history - Cruising

Know your lgbt history - Foxy Brown and Cleopatra Jones

Know your lgbt history - I Got Da Hook Up

Know your lgbt history - Fright Night

Know your lgbt history - Flowers of Evil

The Jeffersons and the transgender community  
  

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Transgender officeseeker smeared by Sally Kern group and other Friday midday news briefs

GOP Senate Candidate Pat Toomey: No On Hate Crimes Legislation - Too late. We already got it.

Group backing Sally Kern calls her transgender opponent Brittany Novotny ‘a confused it’ - Ah yes. Sally Kern. Woman's answer to Peter LaBarbera.

GLAAD Urges Media to Expose Anti-Gay Candidates - I've got a better idea. How about we raise such a stink about these candidates (with GLAAD leading the way) that the media can't HELP BUT TO put attention on their nasty positions.

Why Not Just Invite Terry Jones To the Values Voter Summit? - EXCELLENT point by People for the American Way about the "let's burn the Koran pastor."



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Lesbian couple fighting Florida's anti-gay adoption law

In this hoopla regarding Don't Ask, Don't Tell, let's not forget the other situations involving lgbt equality, most specifically gay adoption in Florida:

Vanessa Alenier's fight to raise an infant relative seized by state child welfare administrators ended up Wednesday exactly where she had hoped it wouldn't: in a Florida courtroom filled with lawyers and advocates on both sides of the state's politically charged gay-adoption law.

Alenier, who accepted custody of her relative after the state Department of Children & Families seized him from a mother they declared unfit, had hoped her adoption of the boy would occur quietly and without the political spectacle that had surrounded previous adoptions by gay Floridians. But on Wednesday morning, Alenier and her partner, Melanie Leon, sat quietly as a three-judge panel of the Third District Court of Appeal heard arguments by attorneys on both sides.

``This isn't what we wanted,'' Alenier said following the hearing. ``We just wanted a quiet adoption.''

Alenier took custody of the baby boy just days after he was born on Jan. 9 2009. She fostered the child before requesting an adoption -- which Miami-Dade Circuit Judge Maria Sampedro-Iglesia approved last January.

Since 1977, Florida has allowed gay men and lesbians to foster abused and neglected children -- but specifically forbids them from adopting. The law now is facing its most serious challenge in decades, as three South Florida judges have declared it unconstitutional and approved adoptions by gay families.

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Thursday, September 09, 2010

Judge rules DADT unconstitutional!

Like I said on Facebook, based upon the year we are having, the lgbt community should start feeling like Bonnie Raitt after she started winning all of the Grammys after 20 years in the music industry:

A federal judge in Riverside declared the U.S. military’s ban on openly gay service members unconstitutional Thursday, saying the “don't ask, don't tell” policy violates the 1st Amendment rights of lesbians and gay men.

U.S. District Court Judge Virginia A. Phillips said the policy banning gays did not preserve military readiness, contrary to what many supporters have argued, saying evidence shows that the policy in fact had a “direct and deleterious effect’’ on the military.

Phillips said she would issue an injunction barring the government from enforcing the policy. However, the U.S. Department of Justice, which defended “don’t ask, don’t tell” during a two-week trial in Riverside, will have an opportunity to appeal that decision.

The ruling comes just over a month after a federal judge in San Francisco tossed out California’s voter-approved ban on same-sex marriage, providing back-to-back victories for gay rights advocates seeking policy changes in the courts that have eluded them in Congress and at the ballot box. The case was filed by the Log Cabin Republicans, the largest political organization for gays in the GOP, in 2004.

There will be more details (Lord, there will be more details) as folks will have time to analyze this ruling.

One thing though - PRESIDENT OBAMA, DO NOT APPEAL IT!!



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Family Research Council attacks same-sex marriage with 'counterfeit' facts

Perusing the Family Research Council's webpage is always a bonanza for me because there is always something there which can be pointed out as an example of how religious right groups distort studies and current events to push the false "radical homosexual activists are hurting America" narrative.

And today didn't disappoint. There is a piece, Ten Facts About Counterfeit Marriage, which supposedly gives a point-by-point reason as to why gay marriage is wrong.

Now many of the points are basic arguments with no facts backing them up as to why heterosexual marriage is "pure as the driven snow" and how gays and lesbians want to drive a bunch of tire tracks into this snow.

But when FRC starts spouting studies, the organization gets into trouble in terms of accuracy:

Many homosexuals and their sex partners may sincerely believe they can be good parents. But children are not guinea pigs for grand social experiments in redefining marriage, and should not be placed in settings that are unsuitable for raising children.

�� Transient relationships: While a high percentage of married couples remain married for up to 20 years or longer, with many remaining wedded for life, the vast majority of homosexual relationships are short-lived and transitory. This has nothing to do with alleged "societal oppression." A study in the Netherlands , a gay-tolerant nation that has legalized homosexual marriage, found the average duration of a homosexual relationship to be one and a half years.

�� Serial promiscuity: Studies indicate that while three-quarters or more of married couples remain faithful to each other, homosexual couples typically engage in a shocking degree of promiscuity. The same Dutch study found that "committed" homosexual couples have an average of eight sexual partners (outside of the relationship) per year. Children should not be placed in unstable households with revolving bedroom doors.

But the study FRC is referring to had nothing to do with same-sex marriage or same-sex households with children for a number of reasons.

The study was conducted by one Maria Xiridou of the Amsterdam Municipal Health Service. Her study did not look at gay marriage but was designed to "access the relative contribution of steady and casual partnerships to the incidence of HIV infection among homosexual men in Amsterdam and to determine the effect of increasing sexually risky behaviours among both types of partnerships in the era of highly active antiretroviral therapy."
 
For this study, Dr. Xiridou received her information from the Amsterdam Cohort Study of Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) and AIDS Among Homosexual Men. To gain this information, researchers studied 1,800 gay men between the years of 1984- 2000.

Same sex marriage was legalized in the Netherlands in 2001, thus making the information irrelevant to points about gay marriage. Information for the Amsterdam Cohort Study is found here.

Furthermore, lesbians were not included in the study and, as far as it is known, there were no questions in the study regarding lgbt households with children.

Now far be it from me to start pointing fingers, but I noticed how cleverly FRC pushed that talking point without actually stating that the couples in the study were married.

Also where would the FRC piece be without a phony panic story about what could happen if same-sex marriage became legal across the country:

If homosexual marriage becomes the law of the land, then children in public schools will be taught that homosexuality is a normative lifestyle, and that gay households are just another "variant" style of family. Those who object may find themselves on the wrong side of the law. Unbelievable? This Orwellian situation has occurred in Massachusetts , which legalized homosexual marriage in 2004. In April 2005, David Parker, the parent of a six-year-old boy, protested to the Lexington elementary school after his son was taught about homosexual "families" in his kindergarten class.

At a scheduled meeting at the school, when Parker refused to back down from his request that the school honor the Massachusetts parental notification statute, he was arrested for "trespassing," handcuffed, and put in jail overnight. The next morning Parker was led handcuffed into court for his arraignment, and over the next several months endured two subsequent court appearances before the school district backed down and decided to drop all charges against him. In 2007, Parker's lawsuit against the Lexington school officials was dismissed by a federal judge who refused to uphold his civil rights and to enforce the Massachusetts parental notification statute.

FRC's version of the story isn't accurate.  I've written about the Parker case on several occasions, including this piece. Here are the bare bones:

Parker's son was not taught about "homosexual families" in his kindergarten class. He brought home a "diversity bookbag" in which one book featured a same-sex family. When Parker complained, the school assured him that his son was not being "taught" about homosexuality but that since children from same-sex households attended his son's school, they couldn't stop the children from talking about their families.

The parent notification statute alluded to by FRC had to do with sexual education, but did not have anything to do with differing families. This was told to Parker by school officials.

Parker and his wife requested that the school, in the future, ensure that teachers automatically remove their children from discussions of same-sex households, even if the issue rises spontaneously. It was explained to Parker and his wife that the policy allowing students to opt out of discussions of human sexuality was not relevant here and the Parkers’ request was “not practical” because children could discuss “such matters among themselves at school.” That was when Parker refused to leave the meeting and subsequently got arrested.

Seems to me that that the main thing counterfeit in FRC's piece on "counterfeit marriages" is the idea that gay marriage is somehow harmful to society.  And it also goes to show that the lgbt community and our allies must remain vigilant in pointing out the errors of so-called "family values" groups like FRC.


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American Family Association attacking lgbt families and other Thursday midday news briefs

The AFA: Taking the "Family" Out of Family Values - Poor American Family Association. They can't help it if they don't want to recognize same-sex families.

Related post - Home Depot attacked for supporting THE GAYS

Brian Brown added me to wall, then put up a wall. But verbal firebombs still make it over - What the heck is "government enforced sodomy" anway?

Governor names new justice - Not bad. Colorado gets gay judge.

Another Wound For Muslims Who Lost Loved Ones On 9/11 - With Sarah Palin and company getting the most face time on this matter, we forget those who lost family members on 9-11. Unfortunately Muslims in this country are getting ugly doses of discrimination:

(Talat)Hamdani said because her son was a Muslim, authorities investigated whether he was connected to the 9/11 plot. FBI agents interrogated Talat Hamdani and her now deceased husband, while a New York Post headline asked if her son was, "Missing or Hiding?" Only when Salman's remains were found at Ground Zero six months later was he cleared of suspicion and recognized as a first responder and a victim.

"He was an NYPD cadet, he was an EMT, he was a first responder, and he wasn't given dignity," said Hamdani.

Ashrafi, who wears a hijab, said teenagers hurled coke cans and anti-Muslim epithets when she picked-up her daughter after school a few years ago, while at a local grocery store, a customer muttered something about "Muslims" before switching out of her check-out line. In another shopping experience, Ashrafi offered to get a product that a wheelchair-bound woman couldn't reach. The woman told Ashrafi she didn't "need help from a Muslim."



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'Poo poo' pastor Martin Ssempa video gets small but crucial makeover

I don't like Martin Ssempa. I don't like talking about Martin Ssempa nor do I like thinking about Martin Ssempa. As one of the pushers of that awful Ugandan anti-gay bill, Ssempa has done more to hurt a lot of innocent people.

Especially with how he evokes awful stereotypes and images to inflame people against the lgbt community. This video of him "at work" has been around for a while. However, this particular rendition has a small change which I thinks speak perfectly to entire situation:



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Martin Ssempa celebrates his homophobia via a blog

'Kill the gays' bill supporter reduced to showing gay porn in church

Martin Ssempa talks about 'poop' to demonize lgbts 


Martin Ssempa's obsession with gay sex . . . and poo? :




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Wednesday, September 08, 2010

Religious right learns the hard way - You can't win in court through fear tactics

While under the radar of many, the recent loss suffered by the religious right over hate crimes legislation should resonate due to why they loss:

The lawsuit, in which two pastors and the head of the American Family Association of Michigan sued Attorney General Eric Holder, was dismissed on technical grounds. Because of this, however, Ludington did not reach the ultimate question of whether the law's penalty enhancements are constitutional.

U.S. Attorney Barbara McQuade, who serves as the federal prosecutor for the Eastern District of Michigan, where the case was brought, said in a news release about the decision, ''We are very pleased with the judge's ruling upholding the Hate Crimes Prevention Act. This law protects all of our citizens.''

The plaintiffs had argued that the law violates several of their constitutional rights, including their First Amendment speech and free exercise of religion rights, and the Equal Protection Clause, because, as Ludington characterized the argument, ''it creates an irrational distinction between different religious viewpoints on homosexuality.'' The plaintiffs also claimed that Congress lacked the ability to pass the law under the Commerce Clause.

The court, however, did not reach those issues because Ludington decided that the case could not be heard at this time, nor in a challenge brought by these plaintiffs.

The timing issue, called ripeness, relates to whether or not the harm claimed by the plaintiffs is timely enough to bring a court challenge. The issue of whether these are the appropriate plaintiffs was addressed by the judge in consideration of whether there is standing, which he found to be lacking.

Although the plaintiffs had not been charged with any violation of the act, which was signed into law by President Obama in October 2009, they sought a ''pre-enforcement declaration'' that the law was unconstitutional.

The court first addressed the standing question, noting, ''The Attorney General emphasizes that the Act prohibits only willful, violent conduct – 'willfully caus[ing] bodily injury to any person' or attempting to cause such injury 'through the use of fire, a firearm, a dangerous weapon, or an explosive or incendiary device.'''

After detailing the potential threats of prosecution claimed by the plaintiffs, the court concluded, ''Plaintiffs have not demonstrated that 'there exists a credible threat of prosecution' under the Act.''

In other words, portents of doom or claiming that pro-gay legislation will harm children, force people to "accept homosexuality, etc. may unfortunately work in school board meetings, on the editorial pages, and on The 700 Club or Fox News, but playing that game in court without proof just ain't gonna cut it.

And that's something to remember because based on my countdown clock on the right, it's almost a year anniversary since President Obama signed lgbt-inclusive hate crimes legislation into law and a pastor has yet to be arrested for "proclaiming homosexuality to be a sin." Remember the following poster:


I wonder if Peter LaBarbera, Matt Barber, Gary Glenn or the rest would accept a nice piece of crow if sent to them wrapped in that poster.

Related posts:

Why can't Matt Barber stop lying about hate crimes legislation?

How to scare the bejesus out of Christians with a failed game plan

It's just good for FRC that crimes against truth aren't tracked
  
Family Research Council brags about ability to fool 80,000 people 

They came, they protested, they got ignored: Anti-hate crimes legislation rally a huge disaster
  
Let the Christian Anti-Defamation Commission wallow in the filth of its own ignorance

Christian Anti-Defamation Commission defends exorcists and hate groups from the 'scary gays'


 



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